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James 4:1-10

Love Not the World

June 6, 2004 · Pastor Miles DeBenedictis

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A verse-by-verse teaching on James 4:1-10 showing that conflicts and discontent arise from the lusts of our flesh, and that friendship with the world is enmity with God. Pastor Miles calls believers to examine their hearts, repent of worldly affections, and humble themselves before a jealous God who gives more grace.

  • Wars and fights among us come from the fleshly desires that war within our members, a pattern evident even in small children.
  • Prayers go unanswered when we fail to ask, or ask amiss to spend on our own lusts rather than seeking God's kingdom first.
  • Setting our affections on the things of this world makes us adulterers against God; friendship with the world is enmity with God.
  • God jealously desires our whole heart, yet He gives more grace—though grace is never license to continue in worldly living.
  • The remedy is to humble ourselves, cleanse our hearts, mourn over the emptiness of worldly pleasures, and refocus our affections on the Lord.
  • Everything we accumulate will ultimately burn; we should invest in God's kingdom, for the one who does the will of God abides forever.

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From whence come wars and fighting among you? Come they not hence even of your lusts, that war in your members? Ye lust and have not, ye kill and desire to have and cannot obtain. Ye fight and war, yet ye have not, because ye ask not. And ye ask and ye receive not, because ye ask amiss, that ye may consume it upon your lusts. ()

What if the real battle isn't out in the world, but in the lusting desires of your own heart?

The Source of Our Conflicts

We live in a day and an age where man, in general, is running about after all sorts of things in this world—the carnal trappings, the lusts and desires of our fleshly and wicked hearts. James poses a question: From where do wars and fights come among you? And he quickly answers—do they not come from those desires that war within your members? Don't problems and wars arise from the very things inside our hearts, desires that begin very young and seem almost inherent in every individual?

As Romans tells us, through one man sin entered the world, and death through sin, and sin filtered down to all humanity so that all have sinned. We all battle the same flesh and its desires, whether we believe in God or not.

A Lesson from Little Ones

I spent five days with my family last week in Arizona in close quarters, and I got to see that inherent desire firsthand. My nephew Micah cried most of a two-and-a-half-hour drive because he couldn't get or have something he wanted. It's amazing to watch: a toy will sit on the floor, and Micah won't care about it—until his little brother Luke picks it up. As soon as it's in Luke's hands, Micah wants it. You see the fights and wars coming out from among us for those desires that war within our members, and it starts very, very young.

"You Kill"—Even in the Heart

When verse 2 says, "you kill and desire to have and cannot obtain," you may say, "I've never killed anybody to get what I want." But Jesus said in the Sermon on the Mount, "You have heard it said, you shall not kill, but I say if any of you hate your brother without cause, you've committed murder in your heart." There are times in my mind, and surely in yours, when we may hate the fact that someone has something we don't.

We live in the epicenter of toys and worldly trappings. Highway 78 is congested on Friday afternoons with RVs and trailers full of toys. Garages in my neighborhood are no longer places for cars but for toys. We have malls full of things and bike centers over the hill for more things. And our flesh is tempted to covet after what our friends, families, or neighbors have.

"You Have Not Because You Ask Not"

We're told, "you have not because you ask not." Chapter 1 said if anyone lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, and God will give. Our God is gracious and faithful, and He gives to those who have need. In , Jesus said do not worry about what you will wear, where you will sleep, or what you will eat, for your Heavenly Father knows the things you have need of. Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added unto you. says as you delight yourself in the Lord, He shall give you the desires of your heart.

Yet verse 3 says, "you ask and receive not, because you ask amiss, that you may consume it upon your lusts." Sometimes we come to the Lord asking out of fleshly desire—"Lord, I want this, I need this, I deserve this." We're asking in the wrong direction, with the wrong focus. And the Lord, knowing what we truly need, often does not answer.

Where Are Your Affections Set?

Many in the church today have their focus in the wrong direction. Paul told the Colossians, "Set your affections on things above, and not on the things of the earth" (). The follower of Jesus is to set his affections on the Lord and on heaven, not on the passing pleasures of this world. Paul told the Galatians that "they that are Christ's have crucified the flesh with the affections and the lusts" (). They've crucified those desires because they've realized those things do not profit.

So I have to question myself. Can I say with Paul, "I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ lives within me" ()? Or am I like those James describes later, who say, "Today or tomorrow we will go into such a city and buy and sell and get gain"? Jesus said, do not store up treasures on earth where moth and rust destroy and thieves break in and steal, but store up treasures in heaven. Yet in our day we build climate-controlled storage facilities to keep out the rust, moth, and thief from the things we want so much. Where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.

Sadly, there are many in the American church whose hearts are focused on this world, so we cannot honestly say, "Maranatha, Lord Jesus, come quickly"—we follow it with, "but wait until I do or have this first." That statement reveals a heart trapped by the treasures of this world.

Friendship with the World Is Enmity with God

James confronts this boldly: "You adulterers and adulteresses, know you not that friendship with the world is enmity with God? Whosoever therefore will be a friend of the world is the enemy of God" (verse 4). You who fool around with the things of this world are doing what Israel did in Jeremiah—committing adultery against your husband and maker, playing the harlot with the things of this world.

Paul wrote in , "to be carnally minded is death, but to be spiritually minded is life and peace. Because the carnal mind is enmity against God... so then they that are in the flesh cannot please God." That is a heavy statement, and it makes me ask where I am in my life. Am I walking in the Spirit, not fulfilling the lusts of my flesh? Or am I walking in the flesh, unable to please God?

God Jealously Desires Your Heart—and Gives More Grace

Verse 5 asks, "Do you think that the Scripture says in vain that the Spirit dwells in us lusts to envy?" In other words, don't you realize that God jealously desires your affections? He desires your whole heart, that I would not be hindered by the things of this world but in constant communion with Him. And I know that's not always the case in my life or yours.

But verse 6 says, "He gives more grace." I thank God that verse is there. In times when my affections are set on the things of this world, He is gracious. Romans tells us His kindness leads us to repentance. He pours out grace even when our hearts are not right, to draw us back to Him.

But do not confuse the grace of God with His condoning that walk. In , Paul asks, "Shall we continue in sin, that grace may abound? God forbid." How shall we who died to sin live any longer in it? So many of us as were baptized into Christ were baptized into His death; we were buried with Him so that, like Christ raised from the dead, we should walk in newness of life. Baptism declares to the world that I am no longer living to this world but to God. "Reckon yourselves to be dead to sin," for "sin shall not have dominion over you, for you are not under the law, but under grace."

The Call to Humble Yourself

What should we do if we find our affections in the wrong place? Verse 6 says God resists the proud but gives grace to the humble. The one who hardens his heart and says, "I'll continue in my own way and get great gain," the Lord resists. But He gives grace to the humble.

So verses 7-8 say, "Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners; and purify your hearts, you double minded." If your mind is split between the affections of this world and the things of God, repent—cleanse your hands, purify your hearts.

Be Afflicted, Mourn, and Weep

Verses 9 and 10 stand out: "Be afflicted, and mourn, and weep: let your laughter be turned to mourning, and your joy to heaviness." To the one chasing the pleasures of this world, He says: realize your own misery. These things will not satisfy the insatiable appetites of the flesh. Every one of us has experienced this—you save up or take out a loan for something you're sure will make you happy, and then you find it cheaper at Costco, or that expensive piece of plastic is outdated in thirty-six hours.

I bought a 6.3-megapixel digital camera months ago, so proud of it, until a man on a train showed me his 8-megapixel one. I bought a new set of golf clubs sure they'd fix my game; I sold them two nights ago after playing with them once. The things of this world won't satisfy. I'm not saying the toys we enjoy are sin in themselves—the Lord has given us all things to enjoy—but when they are put in the place of God, when our affections are on them instead of the Lord, and they distract us from Him, then it becomes sin.

The whole world is under the sway of the wicked one, trying to entangle us with cares that choke out the life of Christ. Do you really think Pepsi spends millions on a thirty-second Super Bowl ad just to make you laugh? Often the joy of those passing pleasures turns to heaviness the moment the credit card bill arrives.

Then verse 10: "Humble yourself in the sight of the Lord, and he shall lift you up." Die to that desire. Lay yourself at the feet of the Lord, and He will lift you up and show you a life far more satisfying than anything the world could give.

Dangerous Teachings in the Church

What grieves me is not only the world's marketing, but teaching now spreading in the American church that encourages this love for the world. There is a teaching in this very area that perverts liberty in Christ—saying, "You're saved, you're going to heaven, so it's okay that you're living with your girlfriend and smoking dope." I had dinner with a friend who goes to a church that teaches this; he stood outside smoking a cigarette and ordered a beer at the table. Now, smoking a cigarette is not sin, and drinking a beer at dinner is not sin—but his attitude, "I have liberty to do whatever I want," that is sin.

There is another teaching going around that focuses solely on social justice. Social justice is not bad—Radstock Ministries, which Kelsey is involved in, cares for those with AIDS in Africa and street kids in Kiev. But social justice is a byproduct of the gospel, not its prime product. Some churches talk only of causes and getting involved and never of the gospel, which is the power of God unto salvation. It focuses man's heart on earth and not on heaven, and it is wrong. A person truly focused on the Lord will help others—that's the faith with works James described—but when we get focused only on loving the things of this world, it's dangerous.

Loving God, and Loving the World Rightly

John wrote, "If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world. And the world passes away, and the lust thereof: but he that doeth the will of God abideth for ever" ().

As we fall in love with the Lord, His love is built up in our hearts so that we, like Him, love the world in the right way. "For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son" ()—not the things of the world that are passing away, but humanity. As we fall in love with Him, we desire to bring that message to the rest of the world.

He came and died on Calvary nearly two thousand years ago so you and I could be set free from the things of this world and have a relationship with Him—not that we would be friends of the world, but friends of God. He didn't die on Calvary to give me a new car; He died to give me a new heart. Abraham was called the friend of God because he gave up his friendship with the world when God called him—he sought not a continuing city here, but a city whose builder and maker is God.

Coming to the Table

As we come to partake of communion—the bread that speaks of His broken body and the juice of His poured-out blood—Paul tells the Corinthians to examine ourselves. Ask, "Lord, is there anything tying me down and keeping me from relationship with You?" says, "Let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which doth so easily beset us, and let us run with patience the race that is set before us, looking unto Jesus." Today we may need to refocus our eyes upon the Lord.

You've heard it said, "He who dies with the most toys wins." A store clerk told me that last week. I said, "He who dies with the most toys still dies"—and their family inherits the credit card debt. Maybe today we need to die to our flesh and its desires, identifying with Christ's death, burial, and resurrection, that we might say with Paul in , "I count all this stuff as dung, that I may lay hold of Him... forgetting those things which are behind, I press toward the goal of the high calling of Christ Jesus."

Yesterday I was talking with my aunt about people younger than me—I'm twenty-four—who already have thousands of dollars of credit card debt on all they've purchased. I was praising the Lord that I have no credit card debt, so that when the door opened for me to go to Germany, I could simply say, "Let's go." What a blessing to be unhindered. If you are unhindered, stay that way. If you're not, keep serving the Lord with your whole heart, make good on what you owe, and today humble yourself before Him and let Him lift you up.

It Will All Burn

Everything we invest so much in getting and keeping is all going to burn with fervent heat, as we'll see in 1 and 2 Peter. The Lord desires that we build on the solid foundation, which is Jesus Christ. In , Paul says no other foundation can be laid than that which is laid, Jesus Christ. If any man builds on it—gold, silver, precious stones, wood, hay, stubble—the day will reveal it by fire. The fire will try every man's work. If it abides, he receives a reward; if it is burned, he suffers loss, though he himself shall be saved as by fire.

There is coming a day when we stand before the Lord, and the fire of His gaze will come upon us. The things of the flesh will go up in smoke, and all that remains is the gold, silver, and precious stones—the work the Lord did in and through us. So where are we storing our treasures? In the wood, hay, and stubble of Southern California, or in the kingdom of God?

He Delights to Give

As we come to the table, let each of us ask, "Lord, search my heart. See if there be any wicked way in me, anything binding my affections to this world and keeping me from focusing on You—and remove it." If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. He is a good God who jealously desires our whole heart, and as you delight yourself in Him, He delights in giving you the desires of your heart.

Months ago I asked the Lord what it means to delight in Him. Driving to church one Wednesday morning, it was as if that still small voice said, "What is the one thing you really want right now?" I weeded through all the lists until I found the one thing I truly desired. Then it was as if the Lord said, "What would you do if I gave that to you right now?" I thought, "I'd have a big smile and be filled with joy." And the Lord said, "Delight in Me in that way today, and see what I'll do in your life." He's a good God. He saved us, not that we would be trapped by the things of this world, but set free to love and follow Him. As we remember Him today in the breaking of bread and the cup, let us realize that He jealously desires our affections.

Closing Prayer

Lord, deliver us from the desires of the things of this world, which are passing away—it's all going to burn anyway. Search our hearts, and if there is anything binding our affections to this world and keeping us from focusing on You, would You remove it. We confess it as sin, and we repent. Thank You that because of Jesus' death, burial, and resurrection, if we confess our sins, You are faithful and just to forgive us and cleanse us from all unrighteousness. Set us free to love You and follow You with our whole hearts. In Jesus' name, amen.

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