Fellowship with the Father Follow up
January 9, 2018 · Pastor Miles DeBenedictis
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A practical follow-up on connecting with God, teaching first how a person enters relationship with God by receiving Jesus, then offering several concrete habits—worship, prayer, and Scripture—that strengthen and maintain that connection.
- Relationship with God begins by receiving Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, being born again of the Spirit.
- Even the most religious person, like Nicodemus, can remain disconnected from God without the new birth.
- Worship is more than singing; it includes meditating on who God is and what He has done.
- Prayer can be honest, ongoing conversation with God throughout the day, casting our cares on Him.
- Scripture reading, even a single verse or five minutes a day, deepens our experience of God's presence.
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As many as received Him, to those who believed in His name, He gave the right to be called the children of God, who are born... of the Spirit.
Be anxious for nothing, but by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God... will guard your hearts.
Six simple, practical habits that turn a relationship with God into a daily, living connection.
Living the Vision: Connection with God
Every year here at Cross Connection Church we begin by talking about our vision: life in connection with God, one another, and the world through Jesus. Today we focused on connecting with God, and as a follow-up some questions naturally arise. First, how do we actually experience that in a practical way? What does it look like to connect with God regularly, day by day? I want to mention six things we can do to strengthen and maintain our connection with God once we've entered into that relationship.
First You Must Have the Relationship
Of course, you first have to develop the relationship, and that comes through accepting Jesus Christ into your life as Lord and Savior. The Gospel of John, chapter 1, says that as many as received Him, to those who believed in His name, He gave the right to be called the children of God—those who are born of the Spirit. They're not born of flesh and blood, but of the Spirit.
A couple of chapters later, in , Jesus speaks more about this with a very religious man, Nicodemus. There was probably no more religious man in all of Israel during the time of Jesus than Nicodemus. Yet even though he did all the temple things, observed all the feasts, and kept the various requirements of the law, he was still disconnected from God. So Jesus told him, unless you are born again, you will not see the kingdom of God. You're still far from God.
We develop that relationship by receiving Christ Jesus as Lord and Savior, confessing our sins, and allowing Him to forgive us by His death on the cross. But then we strengthen and maintain that relationship through several practices. There are probably others we could list, but six are especially helpful.
Worship: More Than Singing
Unfortunately, in our day we tend to think worship is just singing songs to God. That can be a way to worship—singing songs of praise is one avenue—but it's certainly not the only way. For some people who don't sing, or don't think they have a good voice, that might be hard.
One of the ways you can worship God is to spend time in the morning thinking upon who God is and what He has done. The Bible is really helpful for this. If you read through some of the Psalms, you start to get a picture of what God is like—His love, His care, His forgiveness, His grace. When you begin to think about who God is, your heart starts to worship Him.
It's like taking time to think about the person in your life you love—your children or your spouse. As you reflect on all the aspects of who that person is, a smile comes to your face, and you feel a warmth in your heart. That's adoration. The same thing happens with God. Find a quiet, beautiful place—go up in the hills where you can see the sunrise—and start thinking about God, and your heart will begin to worship and adore Him.
Prayer: Honest Conversation with God
An aspect of worship is prayer—spending time talking to God. Sometimes our prayers become very formal, and we think we have to follow a certain pattern. But I just talk to God. I talk to Him like I'm talking right now. I talk to Him while driving in my car, while walking around my house, while sitting at my desk—wherever I may be. I share with Him my concerns, my needs, my cares, my fears, whatever it may be, and I bring those things to Him.
says, "Be anxious for nothing, but by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God," and God's peace will guard your heart. What a beautiful thing—God has given us a plan from the Scriptures for how we can live without anxiety, without fear, without all the things that weigh upon us. We come to Him with our petitions, letting Him know what we're fearful about and what we need. As we draw near to God, He draws near to us.
Scripture: Start Small and Build
The third thing is the Scriptures. I mentioned in today's message thelisteningplan.com—you can go there and check it out. Or simply get a Bible reading plan. There are hundreds of them. Search Google, or go on the YouVersion Bible app and find one. Even if it's just reading one verse a day, start with that. Begin with one verse, begin with five minutes, and add a little bit to it every single day.
If you start off your day in worship, in prayer, and in God's Word, I guarantee you that this week you will experience God's presence to a greater extent, and you will know what it is to be connected to God.
We begin every single year here at Cross Connection Church by talking a little bit about our vision: life in connection with God, one another, and the world through Jesus. Today, we are discussing how to connect with God, which is a follow-up to our previous conversations. Some questions that arise from this topic are, first, how do we really experience that connection in a practical way? What does it look like to connect with God on a regular basis?
I mentioned six different things we can do to strengthen and maintain our connection with God once we enter into that relationship. Of course, you first have to develop the relationship with God, and that comes through accepting Jesus Christ into your life as Lord and Savior. The Gospel of John, chapter 1, states that as many as received Him, to those who believed in His name, He gave the right to be called the children of God, who are born of the Spirit. They are not born of flesh and blood, but are born of the Spirit.
A couple of chapters later, in John, chapter 3, Jesus elaborates on this concept. I encourage you to read that this week, where He discusses being born again with a very religious man, Nicodemus. There was probably no more religious man in all of Israel during the time of Jesus than Nicodemus. Despite doing all the temple rituals, observing all the feasts, and following the various laws, he was still disconnected from God. Jesus told him, "Nicodemus, unless you're born again, you will not receive the kingdom of God. You're not going to see it, so you're still far from God."
As many as received Him, to those who believed in His name, He gave the right to be called the children of God. We first develop that relationship by receiving Christ Jesus as Lord and Savior, confessing our sins, and allowing Him to forgive us through His death on the cross.
To strengthen and maintain that relationship with God, I mentioned six things. There are probably others we could consider, but six clear things I think are particularly helpful. First is worship. Unfortunately, in our day, we often think that worship is just singing songs to God. While singing songs of praise is one avenue of worship, it is certainly not the only way. For some people who may not sing or think they have a good voice, that might be challenging.
One way to worship God is to spend some time in the morning reflecting on who God is and what He has done.
The Bible is really helpful for understanding who God is. If you read through some of the Psalms, you start to get a picture of God's love, care, forgiveness, and grace. When you begin to think about who God is, you can feel your heart start to worship Him. It's similar to when you take time to think about a person in your life that you love, maybe your kids or your spouse. As you reflect on all the aspects of who that person is, you might even feel a smile come to your face. You remember who they are, and you feel a warmth in your heart. That's a form of adoration for that person. The same applies to God. You can spend time in the morning contemplating who God is and what He has done.
I have found that if you seek a quiet and beautiful place, like a spot in the hills where you can see the sunrise, and you start to think about God, your heart will begin to worship and adore Him. One of the practical ways we connect with God is through worship. An important aspect of worship is prayer—spending time talking to God. Sometimes our prayers can become overly formal, and we think we have to follow a specific pattern. I just talk to God as if I am speaking right now. I talk to God while I'm driving in my car, walking around my house, or sitting at my desk. Wherever I may be, I share my concerns, needs, cares, and fears with Him.
One of the beautiful things about prayer is found in , which says to be anxious for nothing, but by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. God's peace will guard your heart. This is a wonderful plan from the Scriptures. God has given us a way to experience life without anxiety or fear, despite the burdens that weigh upon us. We come to God with our prayers and petitions, letting Him know what we are fearful about and what we need. As we bring these things to Him in prayer, we connect with God, and He draws near to us as we draw near to Him, as the Scriptures say.
The third way we connect with God is through the Scriptures. I mentioned in the message today thelisteningplan.com. You can check it out or simply get a Bible reading plan. There are hundreds of them available. You can search Google for a Bible reading plan and find one that suits you. Alternatively, you can use the YouVersion Bible app to find a plan. Even if you start with just one verse a day, that’s a great beginning. Start with five minutes and gradually add a little more each day. If you start your day in worship, prayer, and in God's Word, I guarantee you this will transform your life.
This week, you will experience God's presence to a greater extent, and you will know what it is to be connected to God.
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