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Romans 11:33-12:2

Not Conformed but Transformed

June 10, 2004 · Pastor Miles DeBenedictis

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Teaching from Romans 11:33–12:2 on the believer's response to God's mercies: refusing to be conformed to a passing world and instead being transformed by the renewing of the mind through God's Word. Using Lot, Daniel, and Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego, the message calls for a deliberate decision to follow God's path rather than the world's blueprint.

  • "Conform" means being pressed into the world's mold or schematic, like Play-Doh forced into a shape; "transform" means metamorphosis—being changed from the inside out into the image of Christ.
  • The world and its lusts are passing away and will burn, so a life invested in its things, like Lot's, ends in loss.
  • God has a plan of good works prepared for us (Ephesians 2:10) that leads to life, in contrast to the world's path that leads to death.
  • Transformation happens by the renewing of the mind through the washing of the water by the Word (Ephesians 5:26; John 15:3; 17:17).
  • Daniel purposed in his heart not to defile himself, and his stand inspired his three friends to take the same stand.
  • Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego refused to bow to Nebuchadnezzar's image, and God delivered them, producing a witness that points others to the one true God.

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Oh, the depth of the riches of both the wisdom and the knowledge of God! How unsearchable are his judgments and his ways past finding out! ... For of him and through him and to him are all things, to whom be glory forever. Amen. I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that you present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service. And do not be conformed to this world, but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God. (:2)

The world has a blueprint to press you into its mold, but God calls you to be changed from the inside out—so which path will you choose?

Our Response to the Riches of God

Last night we looked at the riches God has given us in Christ—this salvation afforded to us when we believed upon the Lord, confessing that we have sinned and fallen short of His glory. The wages of that sin is death, but He loved us so much that while we were yet sinners, He died for us. He took that judgment and punishment upon Himself, and now offers us a free gift. As we confess Him and call upon His name, we are saved, no longer under the condemnation of God's wrath, but given a new life to walk in.

After looking at all the riches God has given us, we considered what our response should be. In chapter 12, verse 1, Paul begs these believers to give their lives as a living sacrifice—to lay themselves down at the feet of God to be used completely by Him, holy and acceptable, which is their reasonable service. Then he says, "be not conformed to this world."

A World That Is Passing Away

This world is passing away. First tells us so, and Peter says in his second letter that all these things we see will burn with fervent heat. Everything we can lay hold of, touch, and love to possess is going up in flames. Paul writes to a church in Rome surrounded by decadence and stuff.

I don't know about you, but living in Southern California, I'm surrounded with stuff everywhere I turn. There are malls all around us—I like to call the mall the flesh field. You walk through and look at things in the windows and think, "Wow, I like that. I want that. That would look cool on me." Your flesh just gets built up. The world crams this down our throats constantly through television, radio, and magazines filled with advertisements, all trying to grab you and conform you to its image.

Pressed Into the World's Mold

The word "conform" in the original language is where we get our word schematic. When someone builds a house or a building, they have blueprints—plans that detail every single portion, categorized down to the smallest detail. My dad has stacks and stacks of these drawings in Glendale. To me they look like little lines and tiny words that make no sense, but to him they map out exactly how and when everything will be built.

The world has a schematic too—a blueprint it wants to cram your life into. This word is like being forced into a mold. Have you ever played with Play-Doh? I oversee the children's ministry, and I go up to the little classrooms to mess around with the Play-Doh, pushing it into molds. That's what this word is like. The world wants to take you like Play-Doh and press you into its plan for what you should look like.

The world uses advertising to tell you how you're supposed to look, talk, dress, and what toys you're supposed to have so people will think you're cool. Many people—maybe many in this room—have been sucked into that, feeling they must wear a certain belt or certain shoes to fit in. That is the world's blueprint of success. But Paul says: do not be conformed to it. Why? Because the things of this world are passing away. If you put all your hope, time, and efforts into that mold, your life will go up in smoke.

The Warning of Lot

Back in Genesis, there was a man named Lot whose uncle, Abraham, was called by God to leave his country. Lot came with him. As time went by, their herds grew and strife arose between their herdsmen, so Abraham said, "Choose for yourself any of the land, and I'll go the opposite direction."

Lot looked around the desert and saw a nice green patch to the south, with grass and water for his sheep. From a distance it looked good—just like the things of this world and the schematic of the world look good from a distance. So he pitched his tent toward Sodom. His whole life became about fitting into the world's schematic, building bigger herds and getting better things. He went to the place that offered the most.

But Sodom was full of wickedness. God looked upon the sin there like a cancer that needed to be removed, and He determined to destroy it with fire and brimstone. First He brought Lot out of the city—but everything Lot worked for, even his family, was consumed. He had gone after the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, and he lost it all. The enemy tantalizes us because these things look good from the outside, just as Sodom looked good from a distance. The same will be true for us if we go seeking the world's plan; in the end, it all goes up in flames, and you can't take it with you.

Not Conformed, but Transformed

So Paul tells this church in the middle of a society filled with temptations: do not follow the world's pattern; do not be pressed into its mold like Play-Doh. Instead, "be ye transformed." This word is different. "Transformed" is where we get our word metamorphosis—what happens when a tadpole becomes a frog, when a caterpillar becomes a butterfly, and what happens when Jesus comes into your life and radically changes you from the inside out.

The world wants to package you and cram you into its little shape so you look like everyone else—cookie-cutter gingerbread men. It's funny, because when I was in high school, everyone wanted to be independent and unique. There are even clothing labels called "independent." Yet if you go after the things of the world, at the end of the day they all look the same. All sin is the same. You may package it differently with spiky or pink or blue hair, but when you get right down to it, everyone conformed to the world has been pressed into the same mold. If you truly want to be unique, there must be a change deep within—one only God can do.

Conformed to the Image of His Son

says, "For whom he did foreknow, he also did predestinate to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brethren." This is a different kind of conforming—the metamorphosis kind. God wants to transform us from the inside out so we look more and more like Jesus, so our lives are characterized by the same things His life was.

This nature is completely opposite to what the world considers successful. The world will look at a transformed believer and say, "Something's wrong with that person." But in reality, something is truly right. Jesus told us that if the world hated Him, it will hate us too, because as you become more like Him, it grates against the world. That is exactly what the Lord has called us to.

Two Plans, Two Paths

The world has a plan for you, but so does God. says, "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the Lord, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope." God has a life He wants you to live. The world also has a packaged plan, and "there is a way that seems right to a man, but the end thereof is death."

says, "For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus unto good works, which God hath before ordained that we should walk in them." God established a path of good works for you before the foundation of the world. Every day the world tries to pull you onto its path, but God desires you to walk on His, being transformed into the image of His Son. First says, "the world passeth away, and the lust thereof: but he that doeth the will of God abideth for ever."

So Paul is asking: which path will you choose? Moses told Israel in Deuteronomy, "I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing: therefore choose life, that thou mayest live." Paul is doing the same thing here—setting before you a transformed life on God's path, or death in the world's blueprint that passes away.

Transformed by the Renewing of Your Mind

How can we be transformed? Paul says it happens "by the renewing of your mind." says God saved us to sanctify and cleanse us "with the washing of water by the word." Jesus prayed in , "Sanctify them through thy truth: thy word is truth." He told His disciples in , "Now ye are clean through the word which I have spoken unto you."

Our minds are renewed as we set them upon the Lord and get into His Word, and His Word gets into us and cleans us out. That's why He told Joshua to meditate on His Word day and night, so that he would not turn to the right or the left, and would have good success. It's also why these camps are so important—we get away from the conforming of this world, come up the mountain where there are fewer distractions, and let the Word pour into us as God's living water washes over us.

The Clean Basket

I once heard about a young man who told his grandfather, working in the garden, "I don't want to read my Bible anymore. It's just the same stories I've read since I was a kid, and I don't see how it helps me." His grandfather kept nodding, then handed him a basket and asked him to fill it with water at the faucet.

"Grandfather, this is a basket. It won't hold water." But the old man insisted, so the boy went and ran water through it for several minutes, thinking it was the dumbest thing he'd ever done. He brought it back and said, "I told you it wouldn't hold any water." His grandfather replied, "I didn't ask you to hold water—I asked you to run water. Notice, the basket is cleaner."

Sometimes we read familiar stories and feel they aren't affecting us. But God is using His Word to cleanse you. He wants to transform us by the washing of the water by His Word, so that we are not conformed to this world but transformed by the renewing of our minds.

Why We Are Transformed

Why should we be transformed? Paul says, "that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God." God desires to take a life laid down at His feet as a living sacrifice, remove it from the world's mold, and renew the mind so He can use that person to fulfill His good, perfect, and acceptable will. He wants to set us on the path of good works in , the abundant life He died to give. But we have to make a decision in our will not to go down the path of the world.

Daniel Purposed in His Heart

In the book of Daniel, King Nebuchadnezzar of Babylon conquered Jerusalem and decreed that his men should take the best-looking, strongest, smartest young men back to Babylon to be schooled as good Babylonians. Among them were four from Judah: Daniel, Hananiah, Mishael, and Azariah. The Babylonians changed their names to Belteshazzar, Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego.

But says, "Daniel purposed in his heart that he would not defile himself with the portion of the king's meat, nor with the wine which he drank." Underline that verse. Daniel decided he would not be pressed into the Babylonian mold. He requested not to have the king's delicacies—he wanted to be set apart and follow the Lord, even apart from his own brothers from Israel.

And when Daniel took his stand, his three friends took notice and wanted to stand too. Sometimes it's difficult to say, "I don't want to go down that path," when everyone else is pursuing the things of this world. But when you take a stand, others will take notice and follow, just as Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego did.

The Fiery Furnace

Anytime you take a stand like that, persecution will come. In , Nebuchadnezzar made a golden image of himself, sixty cubits tall—ninety feet high and nine feet wide. He gathered all his princes, governors, and rulers for its dedication. A herald proclaimed that whenever they heard the music, everyone was to fall down and worship the golden image, and whoever would not would be cast into a burning fiery furnace.

That's just like the world: if you don't go in the direction we go, wear the shoes we wear, we'll kill you—maybe not physically, but verbally, talking behind your back and calling you a nerd because you won't do what everyone else does. When the music played, all the peoples fell down and worshiped. But certain Chaldeans came and accused Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego, saying these Jews did not serve the king's gods or worship the image.

No Other God That Can Deliver

Nebuchadnezzar, full of rage, gave them one more chance: bow down when the music plays, or be cast into the furnace—"and who is that God that shall deliver you out of my hands?" They answered, "O Nebuchadnezzar, we are not careful to answer thee in this matter. If it be so, our God whom we serve is able to deliver us... But if not, be it known unto thee, O king, that we will not serve thy gods, nor worship the golden image which thou hast set up."

Enraged, the king ordered the furnace heated seven times hotter and had his mightiest men bind them and throw them in. The fire was so hot it slew the men who cast them in. But then Nebuchadnezzar rose up astonished: "Did not we cast three men bound into the midst of the fire?... Lo, I see four men loose, walking in the midst of the fire, and they have no hurt; and the form of the fourth is like the Son of God." Who do you think that was? Jesus.

He called them out, and the fire had no power on them—not a hair singed, not a coat charred, no smell of fire upon them. Then Nebuchadnezzar said, "Blessed be the God of Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego, who hath sent his angel, and delivered his servants that trusted in him." Earlier he had boasted, "Who can deliver you from my hand?" Now he decreed that anyone who spoke against this God would be cut to pieces, "because there is no other God that can deliver after this sort."

Choose Life

You can choose to be conformed to the image of the world, bowing down when the music plays, and you may have fewer problems here on earth. That's what troubled the psalmist in —he saw the pagans prospering, and his foot almost slipped, "until I saw their end." Those who gave their whole lives to get the passing things of this world were destroyed with them.

Today the Lord is giving you the chance to decide like Daniel and his friends: "I will not defile myself with the things of this world. I'm going to follow the Lord." When you take that stand, people will take notice, and the witness of Christ will be powerful in your life. They'll look at you and say there is no God like the God these young people serve—no smell of smoke upon them, unbound in the fire, with one who appears as the Son of God. That was the testimony when the leaders saw Peter and John; though unlearned and untrained, they took knowledge that they had been with Jesus.

So what will you do? "I call heaven and earth to record this day against you, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing: therefore choose life, that both thou and thy seed may live." Choose life.

Closing Prayer

God, I thank You for Your Word, which truly has application for us, Lord. Sometimes we feel like we've heard it all before, like water running through a basket—but Lord, You're cleaning us out and making us ready to do Your will. Father, I ask that You would set us apart and change us, that we would not be conformed to the image of this world but transformed by the renewing of our minds, conformed into the image of Your Son. Metamorphosize us, Lord, so that the world looks on and says there is no God like the one true God these young people serve—only He can deliver.

We thank You for Your power that works effectively in our lives as we faithfully sit at Your feet and allow You to work. Pour out Your Spirit and Your blessing upon this group. Stir their hearts to make that determination, as Daniel purposed not to defile himself. Work that into their hearts this morning, that they would be set apart for You and not for the things of this world, and that You would accomplish great and awesome works through their lives. I look forward to what You will do with these young men and women who have so much potential to serve You as they lay down their lives. Work a work in our day that we would not believe, though it be told us. We ask in Jesus' name. Amen.

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