Colossians 1:3
November 1, 2015 · Pastor Miles DeBenedictis
In this teaching
Opening a series called "Christocentric" in the book of Colossians, Pastor Miles teaches from Colossians 1:3–14 that a centered, balanced, and joyful life is maintained by thanksgiving to God and built upon faith focused on Christ, which in turn shifts our love toward others and secures our hope for heaven.
- A centered life maintains balance by giving thanks to God, with the focus rightly placed on God Himself rather than self or "the universe."
- A balanced life begins with focused faith; faith placed in self, spouse, career, or works will ultimately fail and lead to hopelessness.
- Christ-focused faith shifts the focus of our love from self-focused to saint-focused, moving us toward joy (Jesus, Others, You).
- You cannot have a sure hope for heaven apart from faith centered on the finished work of Christ, not your good works.
- Faith, hope, and love—the essential Christian virtues—are the marks Paul praised in the Colossians and the ingredients of an abundant life.
- Christ-focused faith compels prayer for others, that they would know God's will, live it, endure trials with joyful patience, and be thankful.
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We give thanks to God, the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, praying always for you, since we heard of your faith in Christ Jesus and your love for all the saints, because of the hope which is laid up for you in heaven... He has delivered us from the power of darkness, conveyed us into the kingdom of the Son of His love, in whom we have redemption through His blood, the forgiveness of sins. ()
A centered, joyful life is held in place by thanksgiving to God and by faith focused on Christ alone.
The Season of Thanksgiving
It seems like the years go by faster and faster, and that's a little unsettling, because you figure it can't go on forever—there's going to come a sudden stop. My dad was an ironworker for over 45 years. Back in 1971 he fell eight stories, more than 100 feet, and miraculously lived. He always tells me, "The fall's not that bad. It's the sudden stop that'll kill you."
Today is November 1st. Halloween is behind us, and it's 54 days till Christmas. But before Christmas comes one of my favorite holidays—the one November is known for—Thanksgiving. It's a holiday rooted in religious tradition, especially the Christian tradition, and it acknowledges that there is One to whom we are to be thankful. All the things we have—life, family, friends, a place to live, food to eat—came from Someone who gave them to us. It's an opportunity to thank God for His divine providence.
Thanksgiving is not just a holiday but an attitude and an act, and both are essential to a fulfilling life. A few years ago I taught a series called The Key to Unlocking Joy, and one of those keys was gratitude. When you find someone whose life is animated by joy, you find someone whose life is characterized by gratitude. You cannot have continual joy without being a person who gives thanks.
Paul's Circumstances in Colossians
A couple of weeks ago we began a new series called Christocentric, studying through the book of Colossians. It was written nearly 2,000 years ago by the apostle Paul to a group of Christians living in the city of Colossae. When Paul wrote it, he was in pressing circumstances—a prisoner in Rome, awaiting trial before Caesar Nero, a trial with an uncertain future that would ultimately lead to his martyrdom.
During this imprisonment Paul wrote four letters: Ephesians, Philippians, Philemon, and Colossians. Philippians has been called the New Testament letter of joy. In it Paul talks about his overflowing joy and says he has no lack, that he is full. Yet his circumstances—house arrest, an uncertain trial—were not where you would expect to find joy. Many people in our own nation, with all our abundance, couldn't say, "I have no lack, I am full." So what enabled Paul to have joy and say those words in dire circumstances? One answer is found in this passage.
A Centered Life Maintained by Thanksgiving
Paul was a prolific writer, penning 13 of the 27 New Testament books. In eight of them—nearly two-thirds—he begins with the same words: "I give thanks to God." Romans, 1 Corinthians, Philippians, Colossians, 1 and 2 Thessalonians, 1 Timothy, and Philemon all open this way. This isn't just something Paul wrote; it's a pattern he lived—a pattern essential for us to come into the fullness of life.
Point one: a centered life maintains balance by giving thanks to God. Have you ever played with a spinning top? If it's centered and balanced right, you spin it and it stands there for minutes, hardly looking like it's moving. Oh, to have a life with that kind of balance. We are a people that often feel out of balance, wobbling, with priorities out of whack. God wants to bring us to a place where our life is centered—and the only way is to center it on Christ.
Notice the focus. The attitude of gratitude is good, but the focus matters more: it's thanksgiving to God. I was talking with someone recently who said they were "just thankful to the universe." But the universe doesn't do anything—it just is. God created the universe. If you're going to give thanks, the focus has to be correct. In every one of those eight passages, Paul's thanksgiving was directed to God.
Faith, Hope, and Love
Why did Paul pray continually for believers he'd never met, who lived a thousand miles away? Have you ever told someone, "I'll pray for you this week," and then forgotten? I do all the time. Paul says, "I pray for you continually," for people he'd never met personally. Why? Verse 4 tells us: "since we heard of your faith in Christ Jesus, your love for all the saints, because of the hope which is laid up for you in heaven."
These have been called the essential Christian virtues: faith, hope, and love. Paul names them in —"now abide these three, faith, hope, and love, but the greatest of these is love." Someone had told Paul about the church growing in Colossae, planted as a fruit of his ministry, and Paul's heart was lifted up because their lives were beginning to manifest these three virtues. They are essential to the abundant life Jesus described in .
But the sad reality is that often our faith is lacking, our love is misplaced, and many people are characterized more by hopelessness than hope. People long for hope—it was hugely championed in the 2008 election—yet many feel hopeless. The core problem is having the wrong focus to our faith.
A Balanced Life Begins with Focused Faith
In 21st-century America we're taught from a young age to trust in ourselves: "I've got to believe in me." But every one of us falls short of our own expectations. The older we get, the more fragile we realize we are; we let ourselves down and let others down. If your faith is in yourself, no wonder you might feel hopeless over time.
And if your faith isn't in yourself but in your spouse, you don't have to be married 24 hours to realize that's misplaced too. In premarital counseling we tell couples, "They're going to let you down," and they look at us with that "no, never" dumb love. Whether your faith is in your spouse, your career, your 401(k), or your health—it will let you down if it's not Christ.
Notice what Paul commended: "we heard of your faith in Christ Jesus." Their faith had the right focus. Point two: a balanced life begins with focused faith. You will not have a centered, balanced life if your faith is not focused on Christ.
Christ-Focused Faith Shifts the Focus of Your Love
If your faith is in yourself, you'll have a misplaced, inordinate self-love. Now, some self-love is normal—if you hated yourself, you wouldn't take care of yourself. But excessive self-love can be harmful. It grows so protective that people never step out into anything new, afraid of how they'll be perceived, afraid to share the gospel because of what others might think. That's a clue to excessive self-love.
Paul told the Colossians they had faith in Christ Jesus and love for all the saints. Point three: a Christ-focused faith will shift the focus of your love from self-focused to saint-focused. That's a good move, and it leads us into joy and fulfillment.
It's sad we feel strange saying this—an outgrowth of 20th-century American Christianity—but God wants us to experience happiness. Some of you will say there's a difference between joy and happiness. I understand. But happiness is only found in Him. Happiness apart from Him leads to idolatry, which ultimately leads to unhappiness. God wants us to experience joy, happiness, and fulfillment, but only with Christ as the centerpiece of our trust.
You Cannot Have Hope for Heaven Without Christ-Focused Faith
A Christ-centered faith also changes our hope. Verse 5 grounds their faith and love "because of the hope which is laid up for you in heaven." Point four: you cannot have hope for heaven without Christ-focused faith.
So many things bombard us each week and erode our hopefulness. If your confidence is not centered on Christ, you will lose your hope, which leads to a loss of peace. "Hope deferred makes the heart sick," the Proverbs say, and we may be one of the most heart-sick nations in the world despite our abundance—because our confidence is on the wrong things.
As Jesus faced the most pressing circumstance imaginable, He told His troubled disciples in , "Let not your heart be troubled. You believe in God, believe also in Me. In My Father's house are many mansions... I go to prepare a place for you... that where I am, there you may be also." That's hope. But if your confidence is in your own good works to get you to heaven, you have very little hope.
For years I've asked people, "If you died tonight, would you go to heaven?" Many say, "Well, I hope so"—as if hoping to win the lottery, wishful thinking rather than steadfast assurance. When I ask what they're basing it on, they say, "I'm a pretty good person." No wonder you're hopeless. "My hope is built on nothing less but Jesus' blood and righteousness." The Christian's confidence is in the finished work of Jesus, who took our sin upon Himself, bore its punishment, and said, "It is finished." "For by grace are you saved, through faith, that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, not of works, lest anyone should boast."
Jesus, Others, You
If you've served in children's ministry, you know the acronym we teach for joy: Jesus, Others, You. Here it is—faith in Jesus, love for others, and hope for heaven. That's a joyful place to be, and it's what God wants to bring us into with this Christocentric focus.
Christ is the gravitational pull that keeps our lives in alignment. Why doesn't the earth careen off into the universe like a shooting star? Because it has something strong at its center holding it in place. That's what Christ must be for our lives. Paul gave thanks because that's exactly where the Colossians were—they had God at the center: faith in Christ, love for one another, hope for heaven.
Epaphras and the Spread of the Gospel
Where did all this come from? Verse 5 continues: "of which you heard before in the word of the truth of the gospel, which has come to you as it has also in all the world, and is bringing forth fruit." Where the gospel goes, it produces fruit. They knew the grace of God in truth—not their own works—and they learned it from Epaphras, "our dear fellow servant... a faithful minister of Christ."
Epaphras likely became a disciple under Paul's ministry in Ephesus (), then returned to Colossae, shared the gospel, and a church was planted. After it began to grow, Epaphras traveled to Rome and told Paul what was happening, declaring "your love in the Spirit." Their identifying characteristic was their love in the Spirit. Having never met them, Paul heard their testimony and immediately responded with prayer.
Paul's Prayer for the Colossians
Point five: Christ-focused faith compels prayer—prayer for others. Paul prays four things (verse 9 onward). Paul is the master of the run-on sentence; if anyone transcribed our prayers, they'd probably read the same way.
First, he prays they would be filled with the knowledge of God's will in all wisdom and spiritual understanding. The number one question I receive is, "What do you think God wants me to do?"—and people give me a blank stare when I say I don't know. I'm not your guru. But I do pray you would know God's will. Notice it's knowledge with wisdom. Knowledge is knowing things; wisdom is knowing what to do with them. As my friend Randy Broberg says, knowledge is knowing a tomato is a fruit; wisdom is knowing not to put it in the fruit salad. You can read your Bible seven days a week and know many truths yet never put them into practice.
Second, he prays they "may walk worthy of the Lord, fully pleasing Him, being fruitful in every good work." I've talked with people who know the Bible inside out—who can argue about reformed theology, eschatology, even supralapsarianism—while their lives are in shambles, living in adulterous relationships. They become the worst kind of witness, because their non-Christian friends say, "It's great that you know all that and go to church, but your life is a mess." Paul prays they would not only know and apply God's will but live it out.
Third, he prays they'd be "strengthened with all might according to His glorious power." That sounds like casting out demons and healing the sick—but notice the application: "for all patience and longsuffering with joy." God, give them patience and joy in trying circumstances. That is a witness for Jesus. You can know all the ins and outs of the five points, but if you don't have that, what good is it?
Finally, he prays they'd give thanks to the Father "who has qualified us to be partakers of the inheritance of the saints in the light." Their standing wasn't earned; God qualified them by His grace.
Something to Be Thankful For
Paul wraps it up: God "has delivered us from the power of darkness and conveyed us into the kingdom of the Son of His love, in whom we have redemption through His blood, the forgiveness of sins." Do you want something to be thankful for today? He has saved you, taken you out of darkness, and made you a child of the kingdom of His love. If you think you have nothing to be thankful for, that's something. You've got 25 days to get ready for Thanksgiving to thank God for that—if for nothing else, that is worthy of thanksgiving. Amen?
Closing Prayer
Father God, I pray for my brothers and sisters here today that You would fill us with all knowledge and wisdom of Your will. Lord, we are not sufficient of ourselves and have no power or strength of our own—enable us by Your power to walk worthy, to walk in a way that shows You are glorious and true and awesome in our lives. Help us be pleasing to You not only in our actions and words but in our thought life, and to bear fruit as we increase in the knowledge of You.
Strengthen us this week, for every one of us will face difficulties we'll be tempted to meet with impatience and unkindness. Give us the ability by Your Holy Spirit to be those who have patience and longsuffering with joy. These are fruits of the Spirit—love, joy, peace, kindness, gentleness, self-control. Work these things into our lives, for we cannot make this happen on our own.
Lord, help us to be a thankful people. You spoke words of judgment upon Israel because they were unthankful, and You said in the last days people will be unthankful. May it not be said of us. Help us to acknowledge that every good and perfect gift comes from You, and to live lives that glorify You through our gratitude. Bring our lives into focus, so that we'd have a balanced and focused faith, a love for others, and an absolute certainty that we will be with You forever. We pray this in Jesus' name, and all those who agree said, Amen.
It doesn't seem like the year just goes by faster and faster. Every year seems to pick up more speed, and it's a little unsettling. As things start to accelerate, you figure it can't go on like that forever. There will come a time when it will stop, and that thought is unsettling.
My dad was an iron worker for over 45 years, and back in 1971, he fell eight stories, which is more than 100 feet. It's a miracle that he lived through that; it's totally unheard of, absolutely a miracle. Every time he tells me that story, he always says, "The fall's not that bad. It's the sudden stop that'll kill you." So yes, it's the sudden stop. Things just go faster and faster.
Today is November 1st. Halloween is behind us, and there are 54 days until Christmas. I know, everybody says, "Don't tell me that!" But take note: 54 days. Don't wait. It is officially the holiday season.
Before Christmas comes one of my favorite holidays of the year, the holiday that November is known for: Thanksgiving. How many of you like Thanksgiving? I love Thanksgiving; it's such a great holiday.
Thanksgiving is an important reminder for us to be thankful. The awesome thing about Thanksgiving is that it is rooted in religious tradition. We are not the only nation that celebrates a day of national Thanksgiving; thankfully, there are other nations that do that as well. However, it is a holiday especially rooted in the Christian tradition, acknowledging that there is one to whom we are to be thankful. It recognizes that all the things we have—life, family, friends, a place to live, and food to eat—come from someone who has given them to us.
It is an opportunity to be thankful to God for His divine providence in our lives. This is such an important thing that we need to do. Thanksgiving, not just the holiday, but as an attitude and as an act, is essential. These are essential ingredients to living a fulfilling life.
I shared a sermon series a few years ago, back in 2011, called "The Key to Unlocking Joy." One of the messages I gave talked about gratitude being one of the keys for us to unlock a life of joy. When you find someone whose life is animated by joy, you find someone whose life is characterized by gratitude. You cannot have continual joy in your life without being a person who gives thanks. Therefore, it is crucial for us to be thankful people.
A couple of weeks ago, we started a new series here at Cross Connection called "Christocentric." We are studying through the book of Colossians in the New Testament. If you have your Bible, you can open to Colossians. If you don't have a Bible, raise your hand, and one of our ushers will bring you one. Colossians is very near the end of your Bible, right after the book of Philippians and just before the books of 1 and 2 Thessalonians. It is a small book called Colossians.
It was written nearly 2,000 years ago by an early Christian apostle named Paul. When Paul wrote this letter, although we call it the book of Colossians, he was addressing a group of Christians living in the city of Colossae while he was in a difficult situation. He found himself in pressing circumstances in the city of Rome, not for a sightseeing tour, but as a prisoner of the Roman Empire, awaiting his trial before the highest court of the land, before Caesar Nero.
This trial had a very uncertain future for the Apostle Paul. He didn't know what was going to happen to him. Although he hoped to be released and continue preaching the gospel in places where it had not been preached before, he still faced an uncertain fate. Ultimately, through that trial and his appearance before Caesar Nero, he would suffer a martyr's death. He would be put to death for his faith in Christ.
But here he is, waiting for the time of that trial under house arrest in the city of Rome. As I've shared with you before, he wrote four different letters during this time. We've studied these letters this year: the letter to the church at Ephesus, the book of Ephesians; the book of Philippians; the book of Philemon; and now we're studying through the book of Colossians.
The awesome thing is that the letter to the church in Philippi, the letter to the Philippian Christians, has been called by many Christian teachers the New Testament letter of joy. In it, Paul talks about his overflowing joy and having no lack. Yet, the circumstance he was in at that moment, with an uncertain future under house arrest awaiting a trial, does not seem like a place where one would experience joy, especially an overflow of joy. It doesn't seem like you would use words like, "I have no lack, I am full." There are many people in our own nation, where we have so much, who couldn't say those words.
So, you wonder, what was it in the Apostle Paul's life that could cause him or enable him to have joy and to say, "I have no lack, I am full," while being in dire circumstances and facing difficult trials? One of the answers to that question, I believe, is found in the passage that we're looking at today.
, would you stand with me? , verse 3, is where we're going to be today. I hope you’ll pardon my voice; my dear little Evangeline is learning how to share. She shared her cold with me. Does anyone else have a cold right now? God bless you.
All right, . Paul writes, "We give thanks to God, the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, praying always for you, since we heard of your faith in Christ Jesus and your love for all the saints, because of the hope which is laid up for you in heaven, of which you heard before, the word of the truth of the gospel, which has come to you as it has also in all the world. It is bringing forth fruit, as it also is among you since the day that you heard it and knew the grace of God in truth, as you also learned from Epaphras, our dear fellow servant, who is a faithful minister of Christ on your behalf, who also declared to us your love in the Spirit."
For this reason, we also, since the day that we heard it, do not cease to pray for you. We ask that you may be filled with the knowledge of His will in all wisdom and spiritual understanding, that you may walk worthy of the Lord, fully pleasing Him, being fruitful in every good work, and increasing in the knowledge of God. We pray that you are strengthened with all might according to His glorious power, for all patience and longsuffering with joy, giving thanks to the Father who has qualified us to be partakers of the inheritance of the saints in the light.
He has delivered us from the power of darkness and conveyed us into the kingdom of the Son of His love, in whom we have redemption through His blood, the forgiveness of sins. Father, this powerful passage before us, I ask that You would give us insight. Use Your word to transform us by the renewing of our minds, that we would be able to show forth in our lives this week what is Your good and perfect will.
Lord, Your word is living and powerful and sharper than any two-edged sword. I pray that You would cause it to go deep into my heart and the hearts of my brothers and sisters here, that Your word would reveal the thoughts and intents of our hearts. May it also transform us, Lord, that we would show forth Your glory in a world that is in such desperate need of light and truth. So God, use Your word today. We ask this in Jesus' name, and all those that agreed said, Amen. You can be seated.
We give thanks to God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, praying always for you. The Apostle Paul, if you've ever read through the New Testament, was a prolific writer. He wrote 13 of the 27 books that are found in the New Testament. In eight of those, nearly two-thirds of Paul's books, they all begin with these very similar words: I give thanks to God.
In , he says, "I thank my God through Jesus Christ for you all." Then again in , he writes, "I thank my God always concerning you." In , he continues this theme of gratitude.
I thank my God upon every remembrance of you. In , we read, "We give thanks to God the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ." He says it again in 1 Thessalonians, 2 Thessalonians, 1 Timothy, and Philemon. All of those letters begin in the same way: "I give thanks to God." I thank God whom I serve with a pure conscience, as my forefathers did. Without ceasing, I remember you always in my prayers, as he said there to the church or to Timothy.
I think this is a pattern of life. It's not just words that Paul would write, but the pattern that he lived. It is a pattern that is so important for you and me to be able to come into the fullness of life.
Point number one on your outline: A centered life maintains balance by giving thanks to God. How many of you, when you were kids, at some point in your life played with a spinning top? Raise your hand. For some reason, spinning tops are interesting to me. In saying this, don't go buy me a spinning top, please.
I stumbled upon a Kickstarter campaign a few months ago, and they were making these little tops that were CNC milled out of metal. I had to buy one, even though it was like $30 for a top. I know that's crazy, but it's okay because Terry spent far more money on his tops than I did.
The thing about a top is that if it's done right, and if it's centered and balanced correctly, you can spin it with your fingers, and this top can spin for what, Terry? Over a minute, right? Four minutes? That's impressive. Four minutes. It doesn't even look like it's moving; it just looks like it's standing still.
Oh, to have a life that has that kind of balance! People are looking for a life like that. I think there's a sense here in our own nation that we are a people who are out of balance. People are always trying to find balance and equilibrium; they are trying to prioritize their lives. How many of you feel like your priorities are just out of whack sometimes? I do constantly, and you just feel like you're wobbling. You're not centered.
One of the things we find as we go through the Scriptures is that God wants to bring us into a place where our life is centered and balanced. That's why I've titled this series "Christocentric." The only way to maintain balance and have a truly centered life is to have a life that is centered upon Christ. This centered life maintains its balance through giving thanks to God. The proper orientation and attitude in that giving of thanks is crucial.
Notice here that the attitude of gratitude and thanksgiving that Paul expresses is good and important. We need to be those who give thanks, but the focus is more important. It is about giving thanks to God. In every one of the eight passages I read, Paul's thanksgiving was always directed to God.
I was talking with someone not too long ago about gratitude, and they made the comment that they were just thankful to the universe. You kind of have to scratch your head when someone says something like that. I get it; it's 21st-century America, a postmodern world. People say all kinds of funny things, but being thankful to the universe? I think to myself, the universe exists, but it doesn't really do anything. It just is. It didn't do anything for you; it just is. God created the universe. So, if you're going to be thankful and have the proper attitude of giving thanks, the focus needs to be correct.
For our lives to maintain that centered balance, our thanksgiving must be directed to God. Paul patterns this for us when he says, "I thank God, making mention of you always in my prayers." Why was Paul thankful? Why did he pray for this group of believers who lived a thousand miles away from him, whom he had never met? He had never met these people before, and yet he says, "I pray always for you."
Have any of you ever had this experience? Someone says to you, "Hey, would you pray for me this week? I've got something going on. I have to give this presentation or I have an interview coming up." They ask, "Would you just pray for me this week?" You say, "Yes, I'll pray for you." Then the next week, they come back and say, "Thank you so much for praying for me." You kind of feel that moment of guilt, thinking, "Oh goodness, I forgot." I feel like I have that experience every single week.
I'll pray for you. People we know, we love, we say we'll pray for them, and then we forget. Have you ever forgotten to pray for someone? Come on, be honest. I do all the time. Paul says, "I pray for you continually." He didn't even know these people; he never had any personal interaction with them. He says, "I give thanks to God for you." Why was he praying continually for them? Well, he gives us insight as he continues there.
In verse four, he writes, "Since we heard of your faith in Christ Jesus, your love for all the saints, because of the hope which is laid up for you in heaven." We thank God continually for you because of your faith, your love, and your hope. These things have been called by Christian teachers for many years the essential Christian virtues: faith, hope, and love. These essential Christian virtues should be evident in my life. If I'm a follower of Jesus, these should begin to be expressed: faith, hope, and love.
Paul speaks of them in one of the most famous passages of Scripture, First Corinthians chapter 13. He says, "Now abide these three: faith, hope, and love. But the greatest of these is..." Does anybody know? Love. Faith, hope, and love.
So, Paul's thanksgiving and his prayer for the Christians in the city of Colossae were based upon the fact that they were showing forth these Christian virtues. Someone had come and shared with Paul about the work, the church that was growing there in Colossae. In fact, we will be introduced to the person in just a moment who shared with Paul about what was going on there. This individual came to Paul and said, "Listen, there's a church that's been planted. I know you've never been there, but it's a fruit of your ministry," because this individual was a fruit of Paul's ministry.
He said, "It's a fruit of your ministry." And there, in the city of Colossae, a thousand miles away, in the middle of Central Asia Minor, there is a group of people who are following Jesus, and their lives are beginning to manifest faith, hope, and love. Paul was filled with joy; his heart was lifted up, and he began to pray for them because they had faith, hope, and love.
These three are absolutely essential for us to experience a fulfilling life—the abundant life that Jesus spoke of when he said in , recorded in verse 10, "I have come that you may have life and that you may have it more abundantly or to its fullest."
These three components—faith, hope, and love—are essential to a life that is abundant and fulfilling. But the sad reality is that oftentimes our faith is lacking, our love is misplaced, and many people would be characterized more by hopelessness than hope. People want hope; they long for it. That's why it was so hugely championed in the 2008 presidential election. Hope is something that people gravitate towards.
However, many people find that their faith is lacking, their love is misplaced, and their hope is more hopeless than hopeful. Even in saying that, I may be describing some who are here in this room today. Hopefully not many, but it may be the reality that you are in a place where your faith is lacking, your love is misplaced, and your hope is more hopeless than hopeful.
Core to this issue of moving in the direction of lacking faith and having misplaced love is having the wrong focus for our faith. Oftentimes, our confidence, especially in 21st century America, is in ourselves. We are taught from a very young age that it is important to trust in ourselves. It’s a cultural waypoint, if you will, to come to a place where we say, "I got to believe in me." Have you ever heard anyone say something like that? Have you ever said something like that? "I can trust only in myself. I'm the only one I really trust." We hear people express these sentiments in our culture today constantly.
The fact is, every single one of us falls short of our own expectations. We realize that our abilities weren't quite there, and the steadfastness of character that we thought we had wasn't there either. The older we get, the more fragile we realize we are. We come to understand that we let ourselves down, and we let other people down.
So, if your faith is misplaced, if the focus of your faith is yourself, then there’s a reason why you might feel hopeless over time. But even if your faith, your confidence, your trust is not in yourself, if your faith is in your spouse, you don’t have to be married for 24 hours to realize that’s misplaced faith. My poor wife trusted in me. If your faith...
Your confidence is in your spouse; they will let you down. If you're a newlywed today and this is the first time you've heard it, I'm sorry, but they will let you down. We normally tell people in marriage counseling and premarital counseling that they are going to let you down. It's so cute sometimes when they look at you and say, "No, never." Really, it's dumb love, right? That's what we call it.
But wrongly focused faith will leave you in a place of broken faith. If your faith is in your career path, your 401(k), your health, or whatever it may be, it will let you down if it's not in Christ. Notice what Paul commended these Christians for and what he praised God for: they had faith in Christ. Their faith had the right focus. He says, "We heard of your faith in Christ Jesus."
Point number two on your outline: a balanced life begins with focused faith. You will not have a centered or balanced life if your faith is not focused on Christ. A balanced life begins with focused faith. Having a wrongly focused faith affects many things. Paul praised and commended the Christians at Colossae because not only did they have faith in Christ, but they also had love. However, it was a certain focus of love—a love for all the saints.
You see, if your faith is in yourself, then you'll have a misplaced love, an inordinate self-love. Now, self-love is not abnormal; all of us love ourselves. In fact, if you hated yourself, you wouldn't take care of yourself. So, there is a certain measure of self-love that is actually important for us to thrive in life.
However, there is an inordinate or excessive self-love. Oftentimes, when people put all their trust and confidence in themselves, they manifest a self-love that is excessive and can ultimately be harmful. That self-love grows to such a place that they become overly protective of themselves, never stepping out into any new thing because they are afraid of how they might be perceived by others. They fear that they might injure their character.
Their reputation, or who they are, is shaped by doing or saying this—by stepping out and sharing the gospel. So, what will people think of me? That's a clue that there is excessive self-love. Having the wrong focus of your faith will lead to a misplaced love, which will leave you feeling helpless or hopeless.
Paul here says to the Colossians, "You have faith in Christ Jesus, and you have love for all the saints." When your faith is focused on Christ, it will bring these other things into alignment. It will bring them to the center, if you will, into balance.
Point number three: a Christ-focused faith will shift the focus of your love. When your faith is centered upon Him, it will shift the focus of your love from self-focused to saint-focused. That is a good move; it is a good transition that takes place. This will lead us into the experience of fulfillment and joy.
I know that it's an odd thing to say, and it's sad that it is, but this is kind of the outgrowth of the middle part of the 20th century of Christianity in America. In the 20th century, we have moved to a place where we feel weird hearing this or saying it. But God wants us to experience happiness.
Some of you right now might be thinking, "Well, no, there's a difference between joy and happiness." I get it. It's an amazing thing that has taken place, and it's really the outgrowth of 20th-century Christianity in America, where we have this guttural reaction that it's wrong to be happy. It's not. God desires that we would experience happiness.
But here's the point: happiness is only found in Him. It's only found in Him. Happiness apart from Him leads to idolatry, which ultimately will lead you to unhappiness. It might provide temporary happiness, but it will lead you to unhappiness.
God wants us to experience this joy, happiness, and fulfillment, but it cannot happen without focusing on Christ as the centerpiece of your trust and confidence. He brings our love into alignment. We move from self-focused love.
To saint-focused love, and it's moving us in the direction of joy. Not only does having a Christ-centered focus of our faith affect our love, but it also changes our hope. He says here that you have faith in Christ Jesus and love for all the saints, verse 5, because of the hope which is laid up for you in heaven.
Point number four on your outline: You and I cannot have hope for heaven without Christ-focused faith. You cannot have hope of heaven without Christ-focused faith. The Colossians had put their faith in Christ Jesus. It had changed the way that they loved people, and it was evident. It had made them a hopeful people.
There are all kinds of things in this world that can affect our hopefulness. We are bombarded by things every single week that will affect our hopefulness. If your faith, confidence, and trust are not centered upon Christ, you will lose your hope, which will lead to a loss of peace. Hope deferred makes the heart sick, as the Proverbs say. There are many people in our nation who are heart sick. We may be one of the most heart sick nations in the world, which doesn't make any sense because we have so much abundance. You look around and wonder how that is possible. The focus of our confidence and trust is on the wrong things, which has affected the way that we love and has led to a loss of hope.
Jesus, as He was getting ready to go into the most pressing circumstance anyone could ever imagine, had His disciples with Him. They were watching this unfold, and it was affecting them as well; their hearts were troubled. He says to them, as recorded in , "Let not your heart be troubled."
This is a really terrible situation we are going through right now, Jesus. What do you mean, "Let not your heart be troubled"? Yes, let not your heart be troubled. You believe in God; believe also in Me. In My Father's house are many mansions. If it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you, and if I go and prepare a place for you, I will receive you to Myself, that where I am, there you may be also. That's hope. But if your confidence and trust today are upon yourself and your good works to get you there,
To be with the Lord in heaven, then you have very little hope. In fact, I've talked with people for years and asked them, "If you died tonight, would you go to heaven?" They often respond, "Well, I hope so." However, their statement sounds more like, "Well, I really hope I win the lottery." It's kind of like wishful thinking; it's not a steadfast, absolute assurance.
When I ask, "What are you basing that hope on?" they often say, "Well, I'm a pretty good person." If that's where your hope is, no wonder you're hopeless. My hope is built on nothing less than Jesus' blood and righteousness. I dare not trust in anything else. If I'm putting my confidence and faith in any other thing, it's no wonder I would feel hopeless.
But the Christian's confidence and trust are in the finished work of Jesus—what He accomplished on the cross 2,000 years ago when He took your sin and my sin upon Himself. All the punishment for our sin came upon Him. And there on the cross, He said, "It is finished." It's paid in full. My confidence is in Him; what He did is sufficient. Therefore, I have absolute assurance that when He said, "I go to prepare a place for you, and if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and receive you to Myself, that where I am, there you may be also," it has nothing to do with my good works. He has done it.
For by grace are you saved, through faith, and that not of yourselves. It is the gift of God, not of works, lest anyone should boast. There's no boasting; it's all about His grace. The believers in Colossae had faith in Christ. Their confidence was in Him, and it altered the way they loved one another, which in turn gave them personally a hope for heaven.
This makes up an interesting equation. Some of you, especially if you've ever served in children's ministry, have seen that little acronym we teach third graders about joy. Joy is Jesus, others, you. What do we have here? Faith in Jesus, love for others, and you receive hope for heaven. That's a joyful place to be. This is what God wants to bring us into with this Christocentric focus.
However, you cannot have this hope for heaven without Christ as the central focus of your faith. Having Christ as the focal point of your faith means your confidence is in Him.
It will shift the focus of your love from self-focused to saint-focused. This is all bringing us into a life that is in focus, a life that is balanced, a life that has a center. And all of it is upon Him, Jesus. We all orbit, if you will, around Him. He's the gravitational pull that keeps my life where it needs to be.
How come the Earth doesn't just go off somewhere into the wilderness or into the universe and careen through space like a shooting star or an asteroid? It's because it has something strong as its center that keeps it in gravitational alignment. That needs to be Christ for my life and for your life.
Paul rejoiced in the church at Colossae. He gave thanks to God because that's where they were. They had God at the center. The Colossians had put their faith in Christ. They had love for one another and hope for heaven. Where did all this come from? In verse 5, the middle of verse 5, he says, "of which you heard before in the word of truth of the gospel, the good news, the gospel which has come to you as it has also in all the world, and it is bringing forth fruit." Where the gospel goes, it produces fruit, as it has also among you since the day that you heard and knew the grace of God in truth.
It wasn't about your good works. It wasn't about your confidence and trust in yourself or in some other thing in this world, but on Christ alone. You learned this from Epaphras, the person who shared the gospel with those people in the city of Colossae. Epaphras was our dear fellow servant and a faithful minister of Christ on your behalf.
It's very likely that Epaphras was the one who heard Paul teach and became a disciple of Jesus under Paul's ministry while Paul was teaching in a city called Ephesus, as recorded in in the New Testament. It's very likely that Epaphras became a follower of Jesus and a disciple of Christ through the ministry of Paul. He then went back to the city of Colossae and shared the gospel with them, leading to the start of a church.
After that church began to grow and manifest faith in Christ, love for all the saints, and hope for heaven, Epaphras went to Rome and shared with Paul, "Hey, Paul, I want to tell you about what's happening in Colossae. There's a group of people there I went and shared the gospel with, and now they're manifesting faith, hope, and love." Paul was overjoyed, having never met them before.
He hears their testimony through Epaphras. In verse 8, he declared to us your love in the Spirit. What was the identifying characteristic that they were followers of Jesus? Their love in the Spirit. Paul responds with prayer. He says, "I heard about you through Epaphras. He told us what was going on there in the city of Colossae, and you know what I did? Immediately after that, I prayed for you."
Here’s his prayer; it’s beautiful. In verse 9, he writes, "For this reason, we also, whoever Paul was with—Timothy and Luke—we all, since the day that we heard from Epaphras about your faith in Christ and about love and hope manifesting in your midst, do not cease to pray for you and to ask four things: that you would be filled with the knowledge of His will in all wisdom and spiritual understanding, that you may walk worthy of the Lord, fully pleasing Him, being fruitful in every good work and increasing in the knowledge of God. That you’d be strengthened with all might according to His glorious power for all patience and long-suffering with joy, and that you’d give thanks to the Father who has qualified us to be partakers of the inheritance of the saints in the light."
Now, just as a side note, Paul is the master of the run-on sentence. I love Paul. If you are an English major and you correct students' grammar all the time, this probably drives you crazy, and you want to break out your red pen. I know Sierra is thinking about it, wanting to point out that this was wrong syntax and that was not the right place for that. Paul is indeed the master of the run-on sentence, which probably all of us, if we had a transcriber writing down our prayers, would also produce.
We could spend weeks going through what Paul prays for these believers in Colossae. These four prayers or four things that he prays for them are significant. First, he prays that they would be filled with the knowledge of God's will in all wisdom and spiritual understanding. This is my prayer for you as well—that you would know God's will.
Probably the number one question I receive from people is, "What does God want me to do?" People email me, call me, or come by the church during the week with decisions they need to make, and I often look at them and say, "I don’t know."
This blank stare, like, what do you do around here all week? I'm not your guru. Sorry. I'll make a shirt that says, "Jesus is my guru." But I do pray that you would have the knowledge of God's will, that you would know what God wants you to do. I think it's admirable and good that you want to know what God wants you to do. But I want you to know what God wants you to do.
Sure, I have all kinds of things that I'd like for you to do. What does God want you to do? Now here's the thing: He says, "I pray for you that you'd have knowledge of God's will in all wisdom." You see, knowledge and wisdom are different. Knowledge is knowing things, knowing information, knowing truths. Wisdom is knowing what to do with what you know; it's putting it into practice.
My good friend Randy Broberg, and I've said it before, I stole it from him—it's great. Knowledge is knowing that a tomato is a fruit. Wisdom is knowing not to put it in the fruit salad. It's simple, but it's helpful. There's a difference between knowledge and wisdom. Wisdom is the application of knowledge.
The scary thing is that you can come to church week in and week out, or you can even read your Bible five, six, or seven days a week. You can read through the Scriptures and know a lot of truths about God and about the Bible, knowing a lot of things about what God would want you to do, and never do it. So Paul says, "I pray that you would have the knowledge of God's will with all wisdom and spiritual understanding." This leads right into the next part of his prayer. He says that you may walk worthy of the Lord, fully pleasing Him, being fruitful in every good work.
Paul says, "I pray to God that you would know what God wants you to do, that you'd know how to apply that, and then that you'd do it." You'd walk it out. It's a sad reality, but it's a reality nonetheless. I have had so many conversations with people over the years who know the Bible really well. They could argue all day long about reform theology, they could argue all day long about the end times and eschatology, and they could argue all day long about the person who worked at the Holy Spirit and pneumatology, yet their life is in shambles. They could argue with me about superlapsarianism, and to most of you, that would raise the question, "What in the world is that?" Don't look it up; it'll totally freak you out. It's a biblical theological term. Superlapsarianism.
They can come argue with me about superlapsarianism, and yet they're living in an adulterous relationship. Wow, this really is not helping you at all. They are the worst kind of witness for Jesus. All the non-Christians they know say, "Yeah, it's so great that you know that and you go to church, but your life is crap."
Paul says, "I pray for you that you'd know God's will, that you know how to put it into practice, and then that you'd do it." He desires that they would live it out and be fully pleasing to Him. Bearing fruit was Paul's prayer. He goes on to say, "I pray that you'd be strengthened with all might by His power."
Now, how do you say that sounds good? I want some of that might and power from God. God, would you pour out your strength, power, and might upon the church in Colossae or the church in North County? Would you pour out your power and might upon them? In our minds, we envision casting demons out of people, healing the sick, and walking on water. That's the kind of thing we see.
But notice the application of power that he is praying for here. God, would you give them strength with all might by His power for all patience? That was not where I was thinking that was going. And long-suffering with joy. God, I pray for the church at Colossae that they would know your will, that they would put it into practice, and that they would be patient with joy in the midst of trying circumstances. Now that's a witness for Jesus.
You could know all the ins and outs of the five points, but if you don't have that, what good is it? Finally, he prays that they would give thanks to the Father for qualifying them to receive the inheritance of the saints. God, I pray for the church at Colossae that they would be a thankful people. They would recognize that their position today is not because of anything they have done, but because you qualified them to be partakers of the inheritance for no other reason than that you, by your grace, made them saints.
Point number five on your outline: Christ-focused faith.
Prayer compels us to think of others. Christ-focused faith compels prayer for others. Paul prayed for the Colossian Christians that they would know God's will, that they would live according to God's will, and that in living out God's will, they would show forth patience and long-suffering with joy in the midst of trying circumstances. He encouraged them to give thanks to God in whatever situation they found themselves.
Paul wraps it up by saying that God has delivered us from the power of darkness and conveyed us into the kingdom of the Son of His love. If you want something to be thankful for today, remember that He has saved you, taken you out of darkness, and placed you in light. He has made you a son of the kingdom of His love, in whom, Jesus, we have redemption through His blood, the forgiveness of sins. If you feel like you don't have anything to be thankful for today, that is something to be thankful for. You have 25 days to get ready for Thanksgiving to thank God for that. If for nothing else, that is worthy of thanksgiving. Amen?
Let's stand together as we close in prayer.
Father God, I pray for my brothers and sisters here today that You would fill us with all knowledge and wisdom of Your will. Enable us, Lord, because we are not sufficient of ourselves and have no power or strength. Empower us by Your strength to walk worthy, to walk in a way that shows that You are glorious, true, and awesome in our lives. Help us to be pleasing to You not only in our actions and words but also in our thought life. Lord, help us to bear fruit as we increase in the knowledge of You.
Would You strengthen us this week? Every single one of us will face difficulties that we are tempted to be impatient and unkind through. Would You give us the ability, by Your Holy Spirit, to be those who have patience and long-suffering with joy? These are all fruits of the Spirit: love, joy, peace, kindness, gentleness, and self-control. Lord, work these things into our lives. We can't make this happen on our own.
Lord, would You help us to be a thankful people? You spoke words of judgment upon the nation of Israel in the Old Testament because they were unthankful. You said in the last days there will come a group of people who are unthankful. May it not be said of us that we are unthankful. Lord, help us to acknowledge that every good and perfect gift comes from You, and to live lives that glorify You through our gratitude.
Lord, bring our lives into focus. Bring our lives into focus so that we would have a balanced and focused faith, a love for others, and an absolute certainty that we will be with You forever. We pray this in Jesus' name, and all those that agree said, Amen.
You, God, are our peace, and all this is a reminder for us. Thank You.
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