John 19:38
December 30, 2018 · Pastor Miles DeBenedictis
In this teaching
Through the burial of Jesus by Joseph of Arimathea and Nicodemus, this teaching shows how experiencing the love of Christ at the cross transforms secret followers into public, fully invested disciples. What was the worst day in history for the disciples became the best day for these two men, because Jesus' death moved them to act.
- By dying on the cross, Jesus demonstrated the depth of His love for us, paying the ultimate price while we were still sinners.
- Jesus' love moved Joseph and Nicodemus from secret discipleship to a public confession of faith.
- His love caused them to use their connections and influence for the kingdom of God.
- His love freed them to invest their resources and abilitiesâtheir wealth, their tomb, their own handsâin His service.
- His love helped them respect the traditions of others, keeping the door open to share the gospel rather than offending people.
- We are called to love people as God sees them, often winning souls rather than arguments.
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After these things Joseph of Arimathea, being a disciple of Jesus, but a secret one for fear of the Jews, asked Pilate that he might take away the body of Jesus; and Pilate granted him permission. So he came and took away His body. Nicodemus, who had first come to Jesus by night, also came, bringing a mixture of myrrh and aloes, about a hundred pounds weight. So they took the body of Jesus and bound it in linen wrappings with the spices, as the burial custom of the Jews is. Now in the place where He was crucified there was a garden, and in the garden a new tomb in which no one had yet been laid. Therefore because of the Jewish day of preparation, since the tomb was nearby, they laid Jesus there. â
When Jesus died, it was the worst day for His disciplesâbut the best day for two secret followers whose lives His love finally transformed.
The Worst Day, the Best Day
In my library I have a book called The Worst Days in History. Throughout the centuries it records something horrible that happened to someone in a given year. Reading it made me think about this passage. Jesus had been in ministry for three years. The disciples were excitedâthey expected Him to overthrow the Romans and establish His kingdom, and they imagined reigning with Him. For them, His death on the cross was the worst day. But for these two men we read about here, it was the best day.
Think about how someone's death affects you. Usually we reflect on a person's lifeâwhat they did, how they touched peopleâand then we say, "and then they died." But with Jesus it is not only His life that transforms people; it is His death. Through His death Jesus touched people and transformed lives, because He paid the ultimate price. On a human level, dying for a cause is the end. In Jesus' case, it was the beginningâfor many people, and for you and me. Without His death on the cross we would still be lost, dead in our sins, walking straight to hell. His death gives us hope and shows His love.
By Dying, Jesus Shows His Love
The first thing we see in this passage is "after these things"âafter Jesus' ministry, after He healed and fed people. Those things were good, part of why He came. But the heart of His coming was the cross.
In Jesus told His disciples He was laying down His life for them; they understood, but not completely. How are you and I when we grasp it? The Bible says that while we were still sinners, He died for us, because that was the only way for us to have eternal life. By hanging on the cross, Jesus allows us to see how much He loves us.
When someone does something for you, you feel indebtedâyou feel you have to do something in return. When we understand that Jesus died because He loves us, that He counts us precious, that is what brings transformation. Will you die for the person next to you? You may say yes, but most of us would not. Yet He died in a shameful wayâas Paul wrote to the Philippiansâto show how much He loves us. Understanding His love is what brings His life into our life.
Moved to Make Faith Public
The second point: Jesus' love moved these two men to make their faith public. Remember, they were secret followers. Joseph of Arimathea was an influential man, one of the religious leaders. Nicodemus came to Jesus at night because he was afraid of being seen; Jesus explained the new birth to him, yet afterward he continued quietly in his tradition.
But when these two saw Jesus dead on the cross, they understood His love, and it moved them to say, "I don't care anymore. I want people to know whom I love and whom I follow." It is like a first relationshipâyou want everybody to know. Today people even ask, "Did you make it Facebook official?"
They had been afraidâafraid for their social status, their economic standing, their reputation. How about us? When I first got saved, someone gave me a small Bible. I tucked it under my arm and didn't want anyone to know, but someone saw it and asked, "What do you have there?" Once I understood He died for me, I wanted everyone to know that Somebody loved me, knew exactly who I was, and loved me still.
I often ask people in the Spanish ministry: if I went to your neighbor or your coworker and asked, "Is he a believer?"âwhat would they say? By watching God's love in action, these two men were moved to act publicly. They were no longer ashamed or afraid. When you begin to experience that, your life starts to change.
Connections Used for the Kingdom
The third point: Jesus' love caused them to use their connections for the kingdom. Not many people had access to Pilate. Not everyone can walk into the White Houseâespecially now, with a wall being built. But Joseph was influential and had access, so he went to Pilate and said, "I want to take my Lord's body." The Roman custom was to leave bodies on the cross to decay and then throw them in a common pile. Joseph would not allow that. It is implied he took the body himselfâimagine handling Jesus' bloodied, scarred bodyâbecause he had experienced Jesus' love.
You have access to people I don't, and people others don't. Sometimes we brag about the important people we know. That's fineâbut how do you use those connections to expand the kingdom and touch lives? Surely Joseph's request stirred something in Pilate: "Why is this man doing this? He must love this Jesus." When we truly experience the love of Christ at the cross, we begin to use what is at our disposal to let others know about God's love.
Freed to Invest Resources and Abilities
The fourth point: Jesus' love frees us to invest our resources and abilities in the kingdom. Joseph used his influence to obtain the body. Nicodemus came with myrrh and aloesâa large and expensive amount. According to Mark and Luke, the tomb where they laid Jesus belonged to Joseph, and a family tomb was costly. These men were well off, and they placed their resources at Jesus' disposal, asking in effect, "How do You want me to use these?"
Some of us think, "I don't have many resources." That's why I included the abilities too. We always say, "If I just made one more dollar an hour I'd be fine"âand then it's never enough. Years ago I asked God for a job at a certain wage; He opened the door for exactly what I asked, and afterward I thought, "I should have asked for more!" It's never enough.
But consider what Joseph and Nicodemus did with their abilities. As rich, powerful men they could have ordered servants to buy the spices and prepare the body. Instead they did it themselvesâwork normally left to servants. You may say you have no talent, but you do. Some people talk too muchâuse it. Some don't know what to sayâjust say what God is doing in your life. Some only know how to wrap basketsâweeks ago there was a basket-wrapping outreach you could have joined.
When we understand what He has given because He loves us, we say, "Lord, whatever is Yours, just tell me what to do." I recently spoke with a man from Colombia who has worked at a church in Orange County for ten years and longs to return homeâhe even painted his house and garden like the Colombian flag. I asked why he doesn't go. He said, "Because God asked me not to. I just take orders; I don't make them." I wish we all had that surrenderâknowing that whatever I have and whatever I am is at Jesus' disposal.
Love That Respects Others
The fifth point: Jesus' love helped them accept other people's traditions. As a pastor, people often ask me to pray because no one at work or school likes themâeveryone walks away when they arrive. Sometimes after a few minutes with them I understand why. As believers we sometimes have a reputation for being obnoxious. But when we experience God's love, that love begins to pour out toward others.
Joseph and Nicodemus had everything readyâthe body, the myrrh, the aloes, the tombâand then they noticed the time. The Jewish day of preparation was beginning. They could have said, "Who cares about their traditions? We have Jesus now." But they understood that offending the whole community would close the door to share the gospel and God's love. Many times we offend people and don't care what they think, saying, "This is who I am because I love Jesus." Yet if you read the Gospels, even when Jesus told people hard truths, they wanted to be near Him because they knew He loved them.
We need to respect others' traditions and opinions until they see that we truly love themâthen the door opens. I once was proud that I could make people upset. I even made a lady cry in an argument, until God convicted me: "Do you want to win the argument or win their soul? Do you want them to know you know more, or that you love them?"
We love to be right, to be the smartest in the room, to top everyone's story with something bigger. We all do it in different ways. But His love teaches us that a person may not yet be ready to hear the gospel or the hard truthâyet they may be ready to experience God's love. And when you love people, often you don't even have to say anything; God brings conviction. Joseph and Nicodemus could have ignored tradition and closed the door. How many doors have we closed by being rude or obnoxious?
When we begin to love people, they start asking, "Why do you want to talk to me when no one else does? Why do you accept me, listen to me?" And we can answer: because I have experienced God's love, and God wants to love you. That is the greatest argument we can offer.
A Time to Commit
The main thing I want you to take with you is this: love others, and see them the way God sees them. If you find you can't, start asking God why. Perhaps you haven't truly experienced His love at the cross. Perhaps you've been a secret follower and God is poking you to go public. Perhaps you haven't used your circle of influence, or put your resources and abilities into His service, and God wants to move you out of your comfort zone.
For the disciples it was the worst day; for these two men it was the best day, because it brought transformation. God wants to do that for you and me. This being the last Sunday of the year, it could be the beginning of something new: "God, I'm going to start loving people the way You love them. I'm going to put my resources and abilities before You, use every connection to share Your love, and let everyone know I have a relationship with You."
If you have never experienced God's love, this is the time to come before Him. Realize that you are a sinner who needs God's forgiveness. Be sure you have a relationship with Jesusâthat you have confessed your sins, asked His forgiveness, and asked Him to be the Lord of your heart. When you do, He begins working in your life, and out of that He overflows His love through you to do everything else.
Closing Prayer
Lord, thank You for this morning. I pray that each one of us will be able to use what we learned in our daily life. Lord, if there is someone here who has never accepted You, who has never asked You to come into their heart, right where they are let them raise their hands and say, "Lord, I am here. Forgive me, for I have sinned. I invite You to take over my life." You can do that in your own words right where you are.
And as the worship team leads us in worship for this last song, pray over the other points you have not yet committed to the Lord. Jesus, I pray that each one of us makes that commitment to be a public proclaimer of Your truth and Your love, to influence others with Your grace, and to put our resources and abilities at Your disposal. Lord, give us the love that You have for this world, that they may experience the life that only You give. In Jesus' name, amen.
I say, now that I know you guys speak Spanish, weâre going to do everything in Spanish. Okay, so are you guys ready? Estamos listos. Okay, vamos a comenzar.
It is a privilege to be here and to share with you what God is doing in our lives. Hopefully, weâll be open to what God wants to show us this morning. I know some of you were waiting for Pastor Myles, but letâs get to Jesus.
If you can, go get your Bible and turn to . Weâre going to be looking at five things that God wants to do in our lives through His love. Weâll start with chapter 19, verse 38, and weâre going to read through verse 42. If itâs possible for you, please stand with me so we can read Godâs Word.
states: "After these things, Joseph of Arimathea, being a disciple of Jesus but a secret one for fear of the Jews, asked Pilate that he might take away the body of Jesus. And Pilate granted him permission. So he came and took away His body. Nicodemus, who had first come to Jesus by night, also came, bringing a mixture of myrrh and aloes, about a hundred pounds in weight. So they took the body of Jesus and bound it in linen wrappings with the spices, as is the burial custom of the Jews. Now in the place where He was crucified, there was a garden, and in the garden, a new tomb in which no one had yet been laid. Therefore, because of the Jews, the day of preparation, since the tomb was nearby, they laid Jesus there."
Father, we come before You and ask that this morning You speak to us through Your Word. I pray that each one of us will be able to hear what You want to say to us. Use an open heart and open mind to transform our lives through the power of Your love. In Jesus' name, amen.
Please be seated. In my library, I have a...
The book that is called "The Worst Days in History" is why we refer to it in your sermon guide as "The Worst Best Day." I know your English grammar might be going crazy, but I don't speak English perfectly, so bear with me. This book covers various incidents throughout history, spanning different centuries and years, where something horrible happened to someone. Itâs a good book, and Iâve been reading it. Itâs interesting to see how things can backfire and how the worst things can happen.
When I read these passages, I think about how Jesus was in ministry for three years. The disciples were excited, believing that Jesus would overthrow the Romans and establish His kingdom here. They thought they would be reigning with Him. For them, it was the worst day when He died on the cross. However, for the two men we read about in this passage, it was the best day.
Consider how you feel when you hear about someone's death. It often makes us reflect on their lives and how they affected others. We think about what they did with their lives, and then we come to the end: they just die. But with Jesus, His death was not just the end of His life; it was transformative. Through His death, Jesus touched people and transformed lives because He paid the ultimate price.
Thatâs why you hear people say that when someone dies for a cause, they have paid the ultimate price. On a human level, that might seem like the end, but in Jesus' life, that was the beginning of something for many people. In fact, it was the beginning for you and me. We thought He was dead, but...
Without Him dying on the cross, we would still be lost, dead in our sins, and walking straight to hell. But He is alive and gives us hope. His dying shows His love, and that is the main purpose. I think we can grasp the power of Jesus' love in our lives, which should bring transformation. That should be the focus.
The first point that we need to see is in this passage: look at these houses. After these thingsâafter what things? After Jesus has been in ministry, after Jesus has healed people and fed people. That was good; it is one of the reasons He came to Earth. But then comes the cross. The first thing is that by dying, Jesus shows His love for us.
says that Jesus was talking to His disciples and told them, "I am laying down My life for you. I am going to die for you." They understood it, but not completely. How do you and I understand this? We see Jesus for you and for me. The Bible says that while we were still sinners, He died for us because that was the only way for you and me to have eternal life.
So, it is remarkable that by Him hanging on the cross, we can see how much He loved us. I donât know about you, but when you do something for somebody, or when someone does something for you, you feel a sense of obligation. You think, "Oh man, I have to do something for that person." For example, if someone gives you a gift during the holidays, you feel like you have to buy something for that person in return.
Somebody does a favor for you, or someone does something for you, and you feel indebted. You feel like, "Oh, now I have to do something." That feeling can be overwhelming.
Think about it: Jesus died for you because He loves you. Just consider the question: would you die for the person next to you? Many of us would say yes, but deep down, we know that not many of us would actually do it. Jesus hung on the cross in a shameful way, as Paul wrote to the Philippians. He did this for you and for me to show us how much He loves us.
When we understand His love and the reason behind His sacrifice, it transforms our lives. Often, we acknowledge that Jesus performed miracles and fed the people, which is nice, but we must realize that He did it because we are precious to Him. Understanding this love is what brings transformation into our lives.
The second point in your outline states that Jesus' love moved these two individuals to make their faith public. Remember, they were secret followers of Jesus. They did not hear what the other disciples heard about Him laying down His life. In John, we read about Joseph of Arimathea, who was a secret disciple. Other parts of Scripture and other Gospels mention that he was an influential man, one of the leaders among the religious leaders. Nicodemus also came to Jesus, not because he was afraid, but for other reasons.
All the people will see Him coming and asking questions. He wanted to be seen, so he came at night. He talked to Jesus, who explained to him the new birth, how to do it, and what to do. He continued to follow his tradition and remained in the religion, but in secret.
Then, two men saw Jesus dead on the cross, and they understood. I love that demonstration of love; it moved them to say, "You know what? Now I don't care. I want people to know who loves me and who I'm going to follow." I'm sure you know people like thatâthose who were going someplace else, doing something else, and then they found Jesus. They were so excited that they wanted everyone to know too.
Think about your first boyfriend or girlfriend. For some of us, it was a long time ago; for others, it might have been just last week. And for some of us, it may never have happened. Just think about your first relationship. You wanted everybody to know. She might not have wanted you to tell anyone, but you wanted to share it with the world.
With social media today, I hear people asking, "Did you make it Facebook official?" What difference does it make? But think about it: they were secretly following Jesus. They wanted to know what was going on, but it was a secret. They were afraid of their social status, their economic status, their intellectual statusâanything. They were afraid of other people finding out that they were in love with Jesus.
How about you and me? I remember when I first got saved. Someone gave me a Bible, a small one, and I was walking around with it under my arm, not wanting anyone to know. Then someone saw me and asked, "Hey, what do you have there?" I said, "Well, it's a Bible." I didn't want to make a big deal out of it, but then I understood.
He died for me, and I wanted everybody to know that there was somebody who loved me. He knew how I was and who I was, and He still loved me. How about you? Many times, in the Spanish ministry, I ask the people, "If I go to your house, or I go to your neighbor and ask your next-door neighbor or a co-worker, who is a believer, what will they say?" They would respond, "Oh yeah, he is."
Then I ask, "How are we following Jesus? How are we publicly demonstrating our faith?" It's not just about the things you say, but the way we live. By watching God's love in action, people were moved to act publicly. They were not ashamed anymore; they were not afraid. They thought, "You know what? I'm just going to let everybody know who I love and who loves me."
When you do that, when you begin to experience that, your life begins to change in different ways at different stages. This brings me to the third point: Jesus' love caused these two men to use their connections for the kingdom. Not many people have access to the palace. How many people can come and go and say, "I want to talk to Pilate"? Not everybody has access to the White House, especially now that they are building a wall.
Not everyone can just walk in and say, "I want to talk to Pilate." However, Joseph of Arimathea was different. The Bible says that he was an influential man, probably higher up in social status, and he had access to it.
Joseph went and talked to Pilate. He expressed his desire to take his Lord's body. He didn't want the body to remain there because the Roman custom was to leave the bodies on the cross until they decayed. The vultures and other scavengers would come and eat the flesh, and eventually, the remains would be thrown away in a common pile. Joseph didn't want that to happen, so he went and asked for permission. Although it isn't explicitly stated, it's implied that he did it himself. He probably went to the cross and took Jesus' body. Just imagine that Jesus' body was bloody and scarred.
Why did Joseph do this? It was because he experienced Jesus' love. This love compelled both him and Nicodemus to use their connections. We all have access to people that others may not. How can you use that for the Kingdom of God? You have access to people that I don't, and you have access to people that others don't. Sometimes, I hear people brag about the important people they know. They say things like, "Oh, I know this guy," or "I know that person." While that may be good, the real question is: how do you use those connections to expand the Kingdom and touch other people's lives?
Do you think that Joseph's actions made Pilate wonder why he was doing that? Perhaps Pilate thought, "This guy must really love Jesus to do what he's doing." So, how about you? Are we using our influences, connections, or the people we know for the Gospel? Are we sharing God's love with others, or do we simply feel good about knowing important figures, like public figures, actors, or athletes? When you begin to think about it, the impact of our connections can be profound.
To experience the love of Jesus, see it in the cross and realize, "He did that for me." Then you begin to use your faith in a public way, letting other people know and utilizing what you have at your disposal.
This is the fourth point: you begin to experience that love. For these two, Jesus' love frees them to invest their resources and abilities in the Kingdom. Joseph came and used his connections and influence to ask Pilate for the body of Jesus. Then there's Nicodemus, who came with the myrrh, which was very expensive. The Gospels of Mark and Luke mention that the tomb where they laid Jesus was Joseph's. Back then, to have a family tomb was not cheap, and it is not cheap today either, but it was even more costly back then.
Joseph put those resources at Jesus' disposal. They were well-off, as we can infer from what we read about the myrrh and the tomb. They put all those resources they had into action because they experienced God's love. They thought, "Okay, Jesus, how do you want to use these resources? What do you want me to do with them?"
I know some of us are thinking, "Well, I don't have a lot of money. I don't have a lot of resources." But that's why I emphasize this point. Believe me, we often say, "Oh, I don't have enough." We think, "If I could just make one more dollar an hour, I'll be fine." Then you make that dollar, and suddenly you think, "Oh, I need to make another one." Itâs never enough.
I remember way back when I didn't have a job. I prayed, "Lord, I need a job to feed my family. I want to make this much." God opened the door for me to a job that paid exactly what I asked for. After I got the job, I thought, "Man, I should have asked for more."
It's never enough. We always think, "Well, I don't have enough." But if you take what you have and say, "Okay, Lord, here it is," you might realize that you do have enough. Research shows that everyone has abilities; people often call it talent. Sometimes, it's just about knowing what to do.
Think about Nicodemus and Joseph. They were rich and powerful, yet they didn't say, "Okay, you two servants, here's the money. Go buy the aloes and the myrrh." Instead, they knew how to prepare the body for burial, so they went and did it themselves. It was not customary for rich people to perform such tasks; it was typically the job of a servant. But they took it upon themselves.
You might think, "I don't have many talents either." But I believe you do. You might know someone who talks a lot. That can be a talent! Other people might say, "I don't know what to say." All you have to do is share what God is doing in your life.
You might think, "I only know how to wrap baskets." A few weeks back, there was a drive where people were wrapping baskets for outreach to local businesses. You could have joined in to help wrap those baskets. When you experience God's love in a deeper sense, you realize, "I might not have much, but I know how to do this, and I can put it at His disposal."
So, what are we waiting for? Sometimes, the pastor will say, "Hey, we need help here," and I think, "Come on, don't leave me hanging!" But when we understand what He did and what He gives us because He loves us, we are compelled to act.
A few days back, I was talking to a guy from Colombia who has been in the States working for a church in Orange County. He really wants to go back to Colombia. I mean, he has been working here for ten years, and he has created a garden with flowers that resemble the Colombian flag. He even painted his house like the Colombian flag. So, I asked him, "Why don't you go back if you want to so badly?" He replied, "Because God asked me not to go back. When I go where I want to go back, I just take orders; I don't make them." I thought that was pretty cool. I wish I could have that understanding, and I wish we all had that clarityâto realize that whatever we have and whoever we are is at Jesus' disposal.
When we can say, "Okay, God, just tell me what to do, and I'll do it," we open ourselves to His will. This is what happened to those who transitioned from being secret followers to being public and fully invested in God's kingdom. When you reach that point, where you can say, "Okay, Lord, this is what I have and this is why I'm here," God's love begins to spill out of your life and touch other people's lives.
This brings me to my fifth point: when you understand that He died for you, He frees you to speak publicly about His love. You are empowered to use whatever is at your disposalâwhat you have and who you are. His love, the love of Jesus, helps you accept other people's traditions.
As a pastor, many times people come to me and ask for prayer. They say, "Hey, Pastor Ignat, can you pray for me? At my job, at my school, in my neighborhood, no one likes me. No one wants to talk to me. I go to the meetings, and everybody just kind of gets away. At school, nobody wants to be in the same space."
I often find myself in a group at work, and during lunch breaks, I notice that as soon as I arrive, everyone seems to disappear. Itâs disheartening because, after spending just a few minutes with them, I realize I donât want to talk to them either. Itâs unfortunate because, as believers, we sometimes develop a reputation for being obnoxious. However, when we experience God's love and understand how He loves us, that love begins to pour out, enabling us to love others.
Consider Joseph and Nicodemus. They had everything they needed; they went to Pilate, obtained the body, and prepared the myrrh and aloes for burial. They were ready to put Jesus in the tomb. They recognized the time, noting that the Jewish tradition was preparing for the feast. They could have easily dismissed the traditions, thinking, "Who cares about their traditions now? We have Jesus, and weâre going to love Him, regardless of how it offends others." But they understood that doing so would offend the entire community, closing the door to share the gospel and God's love with them.
Many times, we as believers offend people without considering their feelings or opinions. We might think, "This is who I am because I love Jesus," but we need to reflect on our actions. If you read the Gospels, youâll see that Jesus spoke the truth but did so with love. Thatâs why everyone wanted to be close to Him; they knew He loved them. We need to take the time to respect other people's traditions and opinions. Only then can they see that we truly love them, and the door to meaningful conversations will open.
In the past, I used to take pride in being able to upset people.
You see those people who go door-to-door, knocking to share what they believe with you. When I see them in my neighborhood, I used to be ready to win the argument. I remember one time I made a lady cry until God convicted me. Now, I don't do that often, but God asked me if I wanted to win the argument or win their soul. Did I want them to know that I know more than they do, or did I want them to know that I love them?
That's another thing we do a lot of times. We want to be the one who is right all the time. We start arguments, and when people say something, we begin to make excuses because we want to be right. We want to win the argument. Not on my clock!
Wow, you guys are very humble liars too. But think about it. Other times, we want to be the smartest people in the room. We want everybody to know how smart we are and show off our knowledge. How about when we want to be the best one, having the best line? People share something, and we always want to one-up them. "Oh yeah, this happened to me," and we come up with something bigger and better.
None of you are liars; you see, we do that all the time in different ways, in different capacities, and with different people. But we all do it. When we understand His love, it helps us realize that the person might not be ready to hear the gospel. We want to love them. That person might not be ready to hear the hard truth about their actions, but one day they will be ready to experience God's love.
Let me tell you something: when you begin to love people, many times you don't even have to say anything. God takes care of them and brings conviction to them.
But then, sometimes we have to build that relationship. Like I said, Joseph and Nicodemus went on to forget about traditions; they wanted to do things their way. However, they would have closed the door for themselves to share the gospel.
How about you and I? How many doors have we closed because we've been obnoxious or rude? It's so bad now that we have that reputation. As soon as someone hears, "Oh, he's a believer," they often think, "Oh my."
What if we began to experience love and give love to other people? They might start to question, "Why do you want to talk to me when nobody else does? Why do you want to accept me when nobody else does? Why do you want to listen to me when nobody else does?" The answer is simple: I have experienced God's love, and God wants to love you.
I think that is one of the biggest arguments we can make. This is the main point I want you to take with you: I am loving other people because I see them the way God sees them. If you say no, then how about we start asking God, "Why not?"
It could be that you haven't experienced God's love or that you haven't seen that love at the cross, where He died for you. It could be that you've been a secret follower of Jesus, and God is poking you hard, urging you to make it public. We need to let other people know what He is doing in your life.
It could also be that you have closed yourself off and haven't used your circle of influence to let others know about God's love. Or perhaps you haven't put your resources and abilities to God's service. God wants to take you out of your comfort zone and help you experience His love in a new way.
For the dead disciples, it was the worst day. For these two, it was the best day because He brought transformation to their lives. God wants to do that for you and me. As this is the last Sunday of the year, it could be the beginning for next year. You might say, "Okay, God, I'm going to do that. I'm going to start loving people the way You love them. I'm going to start putting my resources in front of You, my abilities. I want to use anybody I'm connected with to let them know of Your love. I want to let everybody know that I have a relationship with You."
I don't know what you are going through, but I know that God wants to do that for you and for me. He wants to move through you and through me. So maybe today is the time when you need to make that commitment. If you haven't experienced God's love, perhaps this is the moment to come before Him.
How are you going to do that? It starts when you realize that you are a sinner and that you need God's forgiveness. I'm not saying this to encourage you to keep coming to church; I'm saying you need to be sure that you have a relationship with Jesus. Be sure that you have confessed your sins to Him, asked for forgiveness, and invited Him to come into your heart and be the Lord of your life. If you do that, He is going to start working in your life. That is how you begin. Out of that, God is going to start overflowing His love in your life to do other things. Amen.
As we pray, let me tell you something: I want to invite you. If you have never accepted Jesus into your heart, you can do it now. We are not going to make it public; we are not going to make you stand up. No, no, no. But right where you are, I just ask you to raise your hand and say, "Lord, forgive me for my sins." In your own way, with your own words, confess your sins, ask for forgiveness, and invite Him to be the Lord of your life. If you haven't done it yet, and if you have done it but have not been committed to Him, then this is the time to say, "Lord, just do it."
As the worship team comes up to sing the last song, we can prepare our hearts. Amen. Lord, thank you for this morning. I pray that each one of us will be able to use what we learn in our daily lives.
Lord, I pray that if there is someone here who has never accepted You, who has never asked You to come into their hearts, that they would raise their hands and say, "Lord, I am here. Forgive me, Lord, for I have sinned, and I invite You to take over my life." If you have never done this, you can do it in your own words right where you are.
As the worship team leads us in worship for this last song, I encourage you to pray about the areas in your life where you have not yet committed fully to the Lord. We give You this time, Lord, to work in our lives.
Jesus, I pray that each one of us makes the commitment to be public proclaimers of Your truth and Your love. Help us to influence others with Your love and grace, and to dedicate our resources and abilities to You.
Lord, I pray that You give us the love that You have for this world, so that they may experience the life that You offer. In Jesus' name, amen.
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