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John 4

Can I Get a Drink? | Sunday, August 2, 2026

August 2, 2026 · Pastor Miles DeBenedictis

In this teaching

Through the story of the woman at the well in John 4, Pastor Miles teaches that Jesus is not merely a historical figure to be studied but a living person to be known—the seeking Shepherd who leaves the ninety-nine, reveals both the gift of God and himself as the Giver, and transforms those he finds into ambassadors who bring others to him.

  • Jesus is not merely a historical figure to be studied; he is a living person to be known in relationship.
  • Jesus is the Shepherd who leaves the ninety-nine to seek the one, a trait of God's character seen from Genesis onward.
  • The same divine "must" that carried Christ to Calvary compelled him to go through Samaria for a divinely appointed meeting.
  • You will never receive the gift of living water until you know the Giver, whom Jesus reveals to the woman with the words "I am he."
  • Those whom Jesus seeks and finds become ambassadors who invite others to come and see.

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Therefore, when the Lord knew that the Pharisees had heard that Jesus had made and baptized more disciples than John (though Jesus himself did not baptize, but his disciples), He left Judea and departed again to Galilee. But He needed to go through Samaria. So He came to a city of Samaria which is called Sychar... Now Jacob's well was there. Jesus therefore, being wearied from His journey, sat thus by the well. It was about the sixth hour. A woman of Samaria came to draw water. Jesus said to her, "Give Me a drink."... Then the woman of Samaria said to Him, "How is it that You, being a Jew, ask a drink from me, a Samaritan woman?" For Jews have no dealings with Samaritans.

A thirsty woman comes to a well to avoid the crowd—and meets the One who was waiting there just for her.

The Gospel of the Individual Encounter

The centerpiece of the Christian faith is the gospel of Jesus Christ. When we hear those words, our minds often go to the good news about who Jesus is and what he did for us. That's how the Apostle Paul summarizes the gospel in 1 Corinthians 15:

Christ died for our sins according to the Scriptures, and that He was buried, and that He rose again the third day according to the Scriptures, and that He was seen by witnesses.

That summary is entirely true. But the gospel is also the story contained in the four Gospels—Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John. And John stands out among them. Matthew, Mark, and Luke are commonly called the synoptic Gospels because they give a synopsis of the same basic material, following the same wide-angle view of Jesus's life. Like a wide-angle lens capturing a grand landscape, they show Jesus with the multitudes and with his disciples.

John is different. John zeros in on the close-up—the right lens for a portrait shot. His Gospel is full of individual, one-on-one encounters. Written decades after the others, it comes from one of the earliest and nearest followers of Jesus. Tradition holds John was the youngest disciple and lived longest. He was there when Jesus raised Jairus's daughter, on the Mount of Transfiguration, and closest to Jesus at the Last Supper. He was the only one of the Twelve at Calvary and the first male disciple to see the empty tomb. He calls himself "the disciple whom Jesus loved."

A Living Person to Be Known

Why does this matter? Many people regard Jesus simply as an important figure in history—perhaps even the most important figure in Western culture. And it's true that he lived 2,000 years ago, taught, was crucified, rose again, and ascended. But all of that is past tense. If you only know Jesus as a historical figure, you don't recognize that he can and desires to be known today.

Point one: Jesus is not merely a historical figure to be studied; he is a living person to be known. John's Gospel has been called the Gospel of the individual encounter, and it points us to exactly this reality. Now, it's good to study who Jesus is and what he accomplished—but you can know all the facts of Jesus's life and ministry and not actually know him. There are professors in seminaries in this country who know the stories of Jesus extremely well and don't actually know Jesus.

This is a danger for a Bible church like ours. We want you to study the Scriptures—when we gather, in small groups, and privately. But we want you to get to know God. Jesus said, "This is eternal life, that they may know You, the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom You have sent." Growing up in this church, I would hear people say Christianity is not a religion, it's a relationship. In time I came to understand: it's not just about learning the stories in this book, but about knowing the One this book reveals. This is the revelation of God, that we might know him.

John builds his Gospel toward this purpose. As he says at the end, all these things were written "that you may believe that Jesus is the Christ, the Son of God, and that believing you may have life in His name." A few weeks ago we saw one of the most famous encounters, Jesus and Nicodemus in . Today we come to another famous encounter—the woman at the well.

He Must Needs Go Through Samaria

The scene is clear. The sixth hour in the ancient world was about noon, the hottest part of the day. This region of Samaria is actually very similar in climate to Southern California. Last September I had the privilege of traveling to Israel with the Enduring Word board—David Guzik, Lance Ralston, and Chuck Musselwhite—and for the first time I visited Mount Gerizim and Jacob's well. Most tours don't go there because it's in the region known today as the West Bank. People in Israel never call it that; they call it Samaria. It's out of the way, with checkpoints and difficulties, so most people avoid it. Yet Jesus went there.

Notice : Jesus "needed" to go through Samaria. The old King James says he "must needs" go through Samaria. Geographically, that wasn't true. A faithful, religiously observant Jew in the first century would not go through Samaria. From Judea to Galilee, they would go down to Jericho, follow the Jordan River, and go the long way around—to stay out of Samaria entirely.

Why? The Jews had no dealings with Samaritans—in fact, they hated them, looking on them as worse than Gentiles. About 700 years before Jesus, the Assyrians carried off the ten northern tribes and settled other conquered peoples in the land. Families and faith intermingled, so the Samaritans became a mixed people with a Jewish religion influenced by all kinds of pagan ideas. "Samaritan" became a curse word applied to someone you hated.

I understand the instinct. I serve on the Enduring Word board with three men who live in Ventura and Santa Barbara, so our meetings are three against one—"You come here." And I must needs go through Los Angeles. I'll do almost anything to go around LA. But Jesus must needs go through Samaria—not because it was the most direct route. There's another reason.

The Shepherd Who Seeks the One

Point two: Jesus is the Shepherd who leaves the ninety-nine to seek the one. This isn't a one-off act of kindness. It's the oldest thing about the character of God, going all the way back to . After Adam and Eve sinned and separated themselves from God, who sought them out? God incarnate—I would suggest a pre-incarnate appearance of Jesus—walking in the garden in the cool of the day, saying, "Adam, where are you?"

One of the oldest things we see about God is that he seeks after what is lost. He sought Adam and Eve. He sought Moses in the wilderness. He pursued Jonah when the prophet fled. He sought David when David was far from God because of his sin. He is the great Seeker. The prophet Ezekiel, 500 years before Jesus, spoke it plainly:

For thus says the Lord God: "Indeed I Myself will search for My sheep and seek them out."... I will seek what was lost and bring back what was driven away, bind up the broken and strengthen what was sick.

Jesus taught this in Luke 15: "What man of you, having a hundred sheep, if he loses one of them, does not leave the ninety-nine in the wilderness, and go after the one which is lost until he finds it?" In he says, "I am the good shepherd." And in , "The Son of Man has come to seek and to save that which was lost." Therefore he had to go through Samaria.

The word "must" is significant. It's the same word used in when Jesus said, "As Moses lifted up the serpent in the wilderness, even so must the Son of Man be lifted up," and in Luke where "the Son of Man must suffer many things... and be killed, and be raised the third day." Point three: the same "must" that compelled Christ to Calvary carried him to Samaria. He went because there was a divine meeting he needed to have at the city of Sychar.

A Meeting That Was No Coincidence

Now Jacob's well was there. Jesus therefore, being wearied from His journey, sat thus by the well. It was about the sixth hour. A woman of Samaria came to draw water. Jesus said to her, "Give Me a drink."

Notice the reminder of his humanity—he is fully God, yet here he is wearied by his journey. His disciples have gone into town to buy food, but he stayed for this meeting. As I heard a Bible teacher say years ago, the rabbis say that coincidence is not kosher. This was orchestrated by Christ.

Women typically drew water in the morning before the heat, and usually in a group. This woman comes alone in the middle of the day, which tells us something. She seems to be avoiding the crowd—not because it's too busy, but because there's something about her that makes her the outcast. She comes expecting to find no one, and certainly not a Jewish man. Yet there he is, breaking the rules of the day twice over: a Jewish man traveling through Samaria, and a Jewish man speaking privately with a Samaritan woman.

She lets him know it: "How is it that You, being a Jew, ask a drink from me, a Samaritan woman?" She's almost giving him an out. But he has come to seek and save that which is lost—to reach the outcast.

The Gift and the Giver

Jesus answered and said to her, "If you knew the gift of God, and who it is who says to you, 'Give Me a drink,' you would have asked Him, and He would have given you living water."

Don't miss this—the whole conversation sits inside these words. She is ignorant of two things: the gift of God, and the Giver, the One speaking to her. If she knew both, she would have asked him, and he would have given her what she genuinely wants and needs: living water. The rest of the conversation moves toward revealing the gift and the Giver so that she will ask and receive.

The woman said to Him, "Sir, You have nothing to draw with, and the well is deep. Where then do You get that living water? Are You greater than our father Jacob...?" Jesus answered, "Whoever drinks of this water will thirst again, but whoever drinks of the water that I shall give him will never thirst. But the water that I shall give him will become in him a fountain of water springing up into everlasting life."

Like Nicodemus before her, she assumes he's speaking literally and doubts his ability—"You have no bucket, and the well is deep." But Jesus speaks spiritually. She also senses his identity matters, so she asks, "Are you greater than our father Jacob?" The Samaritans and Jews both revered Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob as the fathers of their faith. The answer, of course, is yes—but she doesn't know it yet. Jesus works to reveal his greatness. Whoever drinks the water she draws daily will thirst again, but the water he gives becomes a fountain springing up to everlasting life. Later, in , Jesus cries out, "If anyone thirsts, let him come to Me... Out of his innermost being will flow living water."

Revealing the Giver

The woman said to Him, "Sir, give me this water, that I may not thirst, nor come here to draw."

Now she's intrigued—she has to make this trip every day. But Jesus doesn't yet give it. Why? Because she knows something of the gift but does not yet know the Giver, and you must know both.

Jesus said to her, "Go, call your husband, and come here." The woman answered and said, "I have no husband." Jesus said, "You have well said, 'I have no husband,' for you have had five husbands, and the one whom you now have is not your husband; in that you spoke truly."

Many commentaries assume all kinds of sinful failures here. Perhaps that's right. But it's important to remember that a woman in the first century had no legal standing to divorce her husband—only the husband could give a certificate of divorce. This woman has been rejected and set aside five times. She's felt rejection like some of you have. Maybe—I'm going out on a limb—she was barren, never able to produce a child, and now she is alone and hiding it. That may be why she comes to the well in the heat of the day, when no one else is there.

Jesus reveals his identity by telling her who she is—not to shame her, but to show this stranger knows her. She responds, "Sir, I perceive that You are a prophet." So she puts him to a prophet's test:

"Our fathers worshiped on this mountain, and you Jews say that in Jerusalem is the place where one ought to worship."

The Samaritans worshiped on Mount Gerizim, just above Sychar; the Jews worshiped on Mount Zion in Jerusalem. There was harsh rivalry between them, and the Samaritans believed the coming Christ would sort it all out. So she's really asking, "Who's right? If you're a prophet, fix this."

Jesus said to her, "...the hour is coming when you will neither on this mountain, nor in Jerusalem, worship the Father... But the hour is coming, and now is, when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth; for the Father is seeking such to worship Him. God is Spirit, and those who worship Him must worship in spirit and truth."

The Father is seeking—which is exactly why Jesus was at that well.

"I Am He"

The woman said, "I know that Messiah is coming (who is called Christ). When He comes, He will tell us all things." Jesus said to her, "I who speak to you am He."

Now Jesus answers the deep cry of her thirsty heart. This is one of the rare places where the original language helps. You don't need Hebrew, Aramaic, or Greek to study the Bible—we have excellent translations—but here it matters. Weeks ago in , at the burning bush, Moses asked God's name, and God said, "I AM." Here the woman says she believes the Messiah is coming, and Jesus says in the Greek, egō eimi—"I AM." The same divine self-identification.

This is remarkable. This is the first time in the Gospel where Jesus says it plainly. Not to Nicodemus, not to the Sanhedrin, not to the Twelve—but to a Samaritan woman with a past. Now she knows the gift and the Giver.

Point four: you will never receive the gift until you know the Giver. Every person you meet this week is desperately seeking something, drawing water from wells and cisterns that never satisfy. That's why songs like "(I Can't Get No) Satisfaction" and "I Still Haven't Found What I'm Looking For" stay atop the charts for decades—because everyone can say, "I try and I try, but no satisfaction." We seek it in religion, alcohol, relationships, success, education, possessions. Each may satisfy for a moment, but they leave you thirsty again. You'll never receive the true gift until you meet the Giver.

Come and See

The woman then left her waterpot, went her way into the city, and said to the men, "Come, see a Man who told me all things that I ever did. Could this be the Christ?" And they went out of the city and came to Him.

When you meet the Giver and receive the gift, there's an immediate transformation—you become an ambassador, inviting others to receive. She left her waterpot behind and ran to the very town she'd been avoiding. The one Jesus sought became the one who brought many more to him.

This is always the pattern in Scripture. In , Andrew met Jesus and immediately found his brother Peter: "We have found the Messiah." Philip found Nathanael: "Come and see." Nathanael said, "Can anything good come out of Nazareth?"—but he came. Those who met Jesus became ambassadors introducing others to him.

So I'll close with a simple question: Have you met him? Not, do you know about him? Jesus said, "This is eternal life, that they may know You." Many people in our country can tell you all about what Jesus said and did and when he lived, yet have never come to know him. Remember Paul's gospel summary—Christ died, was buried, and rose again, and was seen by witnesses. That's the key. Jesus is not dead in a tomb. He is alive, and he desires a relationship with you, that you might find in him the well of living water. "If anyone thirsts, let him come to Me."

And once you've met him, you'll be compelled to introduce others. So a second question: Do you know anyone else who needs to know him? The answer is yes. You'll meet some of them this week—people seeking a satisfying answer to their deep questions and problems. Jesus is the only ultimate answer. If you've met him, they need to meet him too. It's now your purpose and calling to be an ambassador introducing others to Jesus, just like Andrew, just like Philip, just like every evangelist since. God help us.

Closing Prayer

God, I thank You that You're not merely a historical figure to be studied, but a living person we can have a relationship with, that we might know You. And because You desire that we know You, You have sought after us, leaving the ninety-nine to seek us out, just like You did this woman at the well in Samaria. God, thank You that You were compelled to come seeking for us, to die for us, that we might know You—the gift—and receive the gift in You. Would You pour out on Your church? Would You bless Your church? Help us to enter deeper into a relationship with You, knowing You, that we might share You with others as we go from this place today. We ask this in Jesus' name. And all those who agreed said, Amen.

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